Not everything we see happening around us actually happened the way we pictured it to be. Sometimes things will happen for us to be careful of the decision we make and sometimes it happens in the other way around. But when we see people doing some things, we just jump to conclusions without finding out what really is the source of what they are doing and how they have been doing it and coping with it. This brings me back to some memories of some people recently and the way they have been living their lifestyle without being concerned about any other person.
Well truth be told we all are striving to ensure that we are able to meet our end needs every time because it is not always easy just to make decisions from your head. Another thing I find so this sad so much about the way we humans think is that we tend to believe things which we do not know about either from our head or from a distance. We see a lot of things happening, and when these things happen we tend to chase after what we are saying and not find out the real truth about it before proceeding to do it.
One thing I just advise people is that you as a person, have your decisions to make, and do not let what other people say be a yardstick for you to judge yourself or to limit yourself. The way you see yourself and the way you do your thing are actually entirely different from what others do or the judgment that others pass on to you. There are some times when we feel so down and we feel we need someone to talk to, but while doing this we should also be careful what we say so that we won't be judged about it later.
Truth be told, it is very hard when you tell someone something and then you trust them to keep that as a secret for you, but in their head they can't do that. One thing I feel we do not know is that once you share something with someone and the other person shares it with another person, it's no longer a secret, and then if you are not careful it will spread to where you don't expect. Choosing your friends wisely also means you must choose what type of things and secrets you share with them to keep yourself safe.
Life has a lot, and we living in it learn a lot every day. Only those that are not ready to learn and unlearn learned their life lessons the hard way. For fact, some of the lessons we learnt are not just because they are meant to happen but due to our larcadesical attitude towards things made it look so hard and things becomes monotonous Everytime we need them.
The bottom line of those articles is that we need to be very careful not to judge others without knowing their full story. We should always make sure that our decisions count, without letting others’ opinions define who we are, and we must be wise about whom we trust with our personal life because not everyone will keep your secrets or have your best interests at heart. Always remember that you know no one's heart, and we learn life lessons daily, and we must be willing to learn, unlearn, and grow every day.