You want to hear a bitter truth? This Life ain't fair one bit . At some point, you've got to wake up, accept that fact, and stop obsessing over what other people have, what they look like, and what they've achieved.
So let's talk about something that every single person on this planet struggles with. You might want to ask , what on earth could that be ?! I'll certainly tell you. It is nothing else but that overwhelming habit of allowing other people's success to paralyze you. That must be so depressing if you ask me.
The reality is, you can't control another person's success, luck, or timing in life. The only thing you can control is what you do with the example other people set and the actions you take next. Instead of hating or biting your fingers make indepth observations and act accordingly.
When you see other people's lives as evidence that you're a failure, or you're unattractive, or not good enough, you become your biggest hater and obstacle. Mindlessly scrolling on social media, or feeling inferior to someone else makes you feel stuck, hopeless, and perpetually behind . You are only turturing yourself for no reason. You're letting other people paralyze you, which leads to procrastination and self-criticism.
When you focus on how unfair life seems and compare yourself to others, you're draining your motivation and keeping yourself from moving forward. It becomes a self-fulfilling prophecy. You are failing because of your chronic habit of comparing yourself
You are the problem and the first step is accepting the truth , which is life ain't
fair. It's has never been..
Instead of wasting energy on what you can't control, redirect that energy toward your growth. Focus on your journey, your progress, and your unique path. Remember, success isn't about how you compare to others; it's about how much you improve and stay true to yourself.
As humans it is necessary we develop the habit of resilience and gratitude. Celebrating small wins isn't a taboo and learn from setbacks isn't a gun to a head.
Life's unfairness isn't an obstacle, it's an opportunity to prove your strength, to build character, and to carve out your own destiny. Embrace the struggle, because that's where real growth happens. It is a marathon mate , not a sprint !