To me happiness takes alot of form, depending on our personality and nature, some people believe money and material things brings happiness, while some derive their happiness from live from from other people, everyone is right based on their intuition as long as they truly derive happiness from it truly.
You might initially think money is happiness but realize happiness is beyond that after getting the money, you might think love is happiness until you're ever betrayed, our definition for happiness seems to change as we grow older.
I could remember when I was younger, I thought good education will guarantee happiness, I had the education and I realized happiness is beyond that, but nevertheless all good things sums up to form happiness in our lives
MY VIEW ABOUT HAPPINESS
As people will say “Money answereth all things”, Yes! so true only if I had known this earlier I would have focused on getting money more than anything from the start, just kidding though...
There are two I believe can create peace of mind for human, ... MONEY ...
It is true there are lots of poor people that are happy with the little they have and love from their family, but let's be honest with ourselves, nobody wants to be poor, every would love to be rich, being rich does not mean you don't have peace of mind.
I don't fully believe in the saying “Money is the root of all evil”, though people commit attrocities because of money but can't we say “Poverty is the root of all evil” atleast people commit crimes and attrocities because of what they are going through, the rich will never tell you how happy they are, they will only tell you what they are going through despite being rich, it's a normal thins, everyone goes through one or two things, no one has a perfect life, the richest man has some personal things he's going through likewise the poorest man, everyone will look fine until we get to know what they are going through.
It equal and balance... money does not guarantee happiness while being poor also does not guarantee happiness, don't let anyone cajole you money does not guarantee happiness, get money first and find out if it brings happiness or not.
Yes... believe money guarantee happiness but while growing up, I discover there are other things that brings joy into my life...in my opinion seeing what or people you love around you even brings more happiness.
I came to realize this when I started working far away from home, i couldn't get time to visit home for a very long time, I was okay on my own but I really miss my family, my mum would call be literally everyday, my sisters too...I dream about them everyday but I was lacking a bit of happiness within me, I knew I needed to see them, I just got to the new environment and I had no friends, nobody to spare time with, my journey was always from work to house and to church on sundays only.
There was a particular time I got sick and had no one to care for me, nobody could come from home because it was too far, the best they could do was call me everytime and check on me, I felt the absence of true love, I made sure I went home when I recovered.
Being with people you love and sharing moments together with them creates happiness within you, now imagine having money and being with people you love...
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