Top of the day guys, it's an amazing day out here and I think this is the fastest January I have ever witnessed for all my years so far on Earth.
Meanwhile I am in love with this contest, and it is directed towards me💯. I might not have engaged in this particular activity, but here it comes as a reminder again to me.
Self-Love
In the world today, with so many things going on around us, it can be quite difficult for us to show ourselves some love. It can be hard to take out time to pamper ourselves and treat ourselves well. So, when was the last time you really treated yourself to a good time? And what did you do?
Sincerely, I haven't been on a treat sponsored by myself to me. I don't even go out to hang out with friends, unfortunately I have turned down a lot of offers from people to give me a treat in exquisite places.
Omoh I have been this little boring little growing lady. Why I say boring is because a lot of times people around me complain about how I am too into myself, I don't want to go out and party and have fun.
Well they are not far from the truth. I am always indoors, jumping from one thing to another, house chores, work and at the end of the day I'm always too exhausted and the next thing is crashing(deep sleep).
Source
For the past years, I have been taking care of people's children, during holidays I take care of the house and run other church programmes that I am functioning. From one hustle to the other and myself has never been a priority to me. I lacked a lot of things a lady should have because omohhhh ehhhhhnnnnn no time.
Fortunately for me at the end of this year, I was relieved of so many things and when that happened I found out that I has slacked in true self care. Myself care level was just about 30%, which was terrible. Mehnnnnnn, I have been busy doing so many other things to please others, couldn't even have time to eat because after cooking I would lose appetite.
Bug my self care and self treat started in a grand style and from here I will pick up till I get the standard I want.
Immediate Self care routine I have been engaging these few months.
Rest: Since I got relieved of so many of my duties, I have been able to rest. By rest I mean sleep. I have been able to give myself quality sleep for a couple of weeks now. I never got the sufficient sleep a human being should get. I wake early and sleep the next morning as well.Afternoon nap to me were just fairy tales Coz I never had one for months.
But now I get quality rest and my mind is more balanced than ever. It's a priceless treat for me.
Healthy diet:
Hmmmm, all I can say is that right now I have an enlarged intestine😂😂😂. This is me that would be struggling to eat at least twice a day but couldn't because of lack of appetite and tiredness.I cook every time but get filled with the Aroma and I get so reluctant to eat afterwards.
All I can say now is that omoh I can eat, no try me oooo, I'm not a glutton but I can eat better now and i eat healthy diets.
Miscellaneous:
Funny right??😂😂😂. This section comprises little stuff like making good hair, washing and arranging my wardrobe daily. Enhanced fashion skills because I get the time to chill and select some nice outfits.
Cleaning and arranging my room daily: I do this every time, I'm so conscious of everything in my room now and I make it very tidy and elegant.
My entire life is arranged now and this particular routine I will maintain till whenever I can't anymore.
With this I have enough and to spare time for myself and I have been planning a few treats for myself like
A pizza🍕and ice cream🍨 date, a genuine and time taking one. Just me myself and I
Swimming: I haven't done this for years and I must do this very soon
A spa treat
Shopping.
Let me stop here for now, I will update you when I start making these moves. I right here, right now, I need a real baby girl treatment💆♀️🧖♀️🛀🧘♀️.
It doesn't hurt to spend quality time and money on yourself, you are a darling you know.