There are some things I will always say and will stand by it even when most people are blindly against it. Actually,most people just find it hard to accept the fact truth ,they argue and stand against these things because can't comprehend. One of these things is about A man and a woman - Relationship.
I always say this, As a woman, no matter how wealthy you may be ,you are not in the right way to funds a man's potential, I know you will argue but before you do so, read further these things I will alight. Why will a man depends on you ,a woman for his growth? Why will you be sponsoring someone that is going to be the head of the family and you think everything is ok . It is not ,I do see this as inappropriate in any corners or angles you wanna look at it . A man's growth is his responsibility.
As a lady, do not settle with a man that is still "figuring it out" he is not ready, let him be. A man should only approach a lady when he is Capt of handling his responsibility. Listen ladies, you a re not an instrument of stepping stone for any man rather you are his partner.
Another thing I would always stand to say is,woman should not shrink herself just to fit in a man's life.. What the hell are you doing sis, you are wonderful and beautifully made ,you are a lady ,God has ordained us to be chased by men not ladies chasing after men. If he cannot expands himself to meet your standards,then let him be,a real man will never ask you to settle,a real man step up to meet your standards even if difficult. Don't suffer with a man and think he won't later betray you, you are the one interested in suffering,he is building himself for that lady of his dream ,when he make it ,he will surely go to her.
Another thing I find funny is A man telling his partner to pay the bills because he has always been the one paying whenever they go out, if you do this as a lady, sisterhood is not proud of you at all, if a man invites you ,he should provide. You going out with him , prioritizing his offers of taking you out over doing something else ,he must value that time and should accept any responsibility that comes with it. It should never be a topic of discussion about who to pay bills,a real man should be able to show effort consistence and be intentional
I wonder this 50/50 in marriage being trending in new homes now, this is just cheat. This word is mostly spoken by the poor and lazy man. How will your woman be a mom, cooking and all sorts and still provide? Why do you even think a woman needs a man, it is os that he can provide while they do all this treanous work at home and equation will be balanced. Men who look down on their spouse because they don't bring anything to the table financially, without the woman sacrificing her time and years of her life raising your child not to mention where many hats while you went to work and didn't have to worry about your child to the doctor,you wouldn't be able to be active in that work you do that makes you financially boyant , sometimes you do overtime just to add up to your pay ,will you still be able to do that if she isn't there to fill up that space?
Do you know how much baby sitter receives? And you won't be even have that peace because you know helper can do and undo, what about dry cleaners? They are one of the richest in town , because the money they charge is not small . If your spouse should be paid for all these works ,she might be earning more than you do . You don't have to get threatened because you did your part as a man and as a father to your child.
A real man will always prioritize protecting your heart always and not toying with it. Men are never made of betrayal, because that is what most people says, Betrayal is never natural, it is a choice. If you are unable to trust him,then alert him be and walk away.
Relationship isn't for boys but men. Level up before walking up to a lady as a man and you should also go to a lady of your capacity.
Even if it takes like forever, I won't settle for less, I will settle for a real man.
