Hi Christine, basically write an introductory blog post about who you are, I'm sure there are people on here that would be interested in your story, and tag it first with 'introduceyourself' then 'life'. Basically on the left hand column of your feed page Steemit shows all the most popular tags with the most popular at the top.
BTW, have you been keeping an eye on Brian Harvey? There seems to be a hell of a lot of shit coming at him. Did you see that they sent the cops around to his home to try to scare him about a supposed death threat the other day? Check out his YouTube channel - he's been posting a lot of updates on his plight. I think he might have them running scared. He needs exposure.
RE: Part One - Why Hugh Grant is Destroyng My Life.