The biggest problem in human relations is not being open and clear. State clearly what kind of person you are, what kind of friendship or lover you want, what kind of lifestyle you adopt. State the life you want to live clearly and clearly so that people will treat you that way.
Let your boundaries be clear. State your demands, you should say no where necessary. Let yourself go where needed. Be precise and clear. The rest stays, the left goes, and the path is clear.
Humans perform the communication according to the rules. Remove those who cannot communicate and do not want to communicate, and move on.
Balance is the most important issue in such relationships. Neither too little nor too little. Everything should have a balance, not miss the setting.