We hear things like; "keep whatever is going on around you private, don't trust people, not everyone that laughs with you or say they love you actually cares...stay on your own"
Due to Past experiences, once extroverted individuals have turned loners. People now see the world and those in it as danger. Everyone wants to be careful, everyone wants to avoid drama and heartbreaks and they think being detatched or isolated is the only solution.
NO. This walls you think keeps out sadness keeps out joy. And funny enough they even make you more sad, because you feel alone and unloved.
There are a few people out there that truly love and care for you, you just have to find them and give them a chance..but you can't find them if you're so isolated..
And if you've not found them yet then fine, everything with a good always has a bad and vice versa.
You can't live behind closed doors just because of what happened in the past. There are a lot of bad in this world and also a lot of good.
But one thing i know and keep saying is, you deserve happiness..it doesn't matter who you are, or what you do, you deserve to be happy.
So i say, breakdown those walls to some extent, take a deep breath, breathe out, go out there and be happy because you deserve it.🙏😘