Hmmm,what a rhetorical question! Are women gods? So,why are the so special? Someone might be thinking if this question is wise or foolish one. How can a woman be a source of blessing? What of if I told you that a wise woman is a blessing to her home. Godly woman is a wisdom based and a source of blessing. But before going further,let us look at the types of women that can be a blessing for their families.
wise woman(blessing attractor)
Every wise women buildeth their house: proverbs 14:1a
Unless a woman is wise ,she cannot maintain her blessings in her home nor attract blessings to her home. God i always in the business of hearing the supplication of a wise woman because she always takes a bold step that makes God beholds her. A wise woman prepare herself for unforeseen circumstances and for evil days. She plans ahead and maintains her integrity a quality woman.
whoso findeth a wife findeth a good thing,and obtained favour of the Lord. Proverb.18:22
The above bible verse is only applicabke to the wise women . not all women
QUALITIES OF A WISE WOMAN
- A prayerful woman
- A risk taker
- Always protects her home
- Always plans for her home
- Always makes her home heaven on earth
- Respects her husband
#how you want your home to be is determined by you as a wise woman
"...;a foolish woman destroys her house" prov. 14:1b
A foolish woman will always destroys her home. She has no focus on her household. She is not even ready to change her ways . sh doesn't care if God is angry or not;if her household is fine or not.
QUALITIES OF A FOOLISH WOMAN
The “foolish” woman destroys her own house by being:
Foolish, that is, ignoring or challenging God’s rules for living right. Every good marriage involves 3: the husband, the wife, and God (Colossians 3:16-21)!
Contentious (“dissing,” chiding, scolding, fussy, fretful), a tyrant by tantrums.
“Better to dwell in a corner of a housetop, Than in a house shared with a contentious woman” (Proverbs 21:9); “Better to dwell in the wilderness, Than with a contentious and angry woman” (Proverbs 21:19); “It is better to dwell in a corner of a housetop, Than in a house shared with a contentious woman” (Proverbs 25:24); “A continual dripping on a very rainy day And a contentious woman are alike; Whoever restrains her restrains the wind, And grasps oil with his right hand” (Proverbs 27:15-16). There is no relief from a leaky roof “on a very rainy day,” and so a contentious woman can literally drive her family up the wall to the attic, or out the door into “the wilderness.” She is as impossible to deal with as “the wind,” or the fragrant odor of “oil” (perfume) once it’s in the hand. She has turned against her mate who should be her support, and her children who would unconditionally love her. The home should be a refuge, not a hunting ground!
- Selfishly Independent, that is, she must be willing to uphold her place in the home. Too many, it seems, are like young widows, not ready to settle down into being a wife and mother. “But refuse the younger widows; for when they have begun to grow wanton against Christ, they desire to marry, having condemnation because they have cast off their first faith. And besides they learn to be idle, wandering about from house to house, and not only idle but also gossips and busybodies, saying things which they ought not” (1 Timothy 5:11-13). Some mothers dress and act like they are still in the “singles scene,” looking for a mate, not like they have taken themselves “off the market” because of responsibilities at home (1 Timothy 5:14).
Some women disrespect God’s Word by not marrying, not being a good wife, not being a proper mother, or by making her own home-life miserable!
Moreover, i noticed that some families glowing bosom now have the back up of their wifes. So,if a home is sweet,it is the result of work of the woman in that house and if the home is always on fire,then the woman in that house is likely to be fire herself.
No matter how mad a man is, his wise woman will never allow that madness to come out,she makes sure that she kills that madness. the key to every man's normalies and abnormalies are in the hand of his wife
A wise woman is an Angel to her households. No matter hiw wreched a man is,a wise woman will make him rich.
THE MORE YOU TAKE CARE OF YOUR WIFE,THE MORE GOD BLESSES YOU.
SHALOM!!!
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