"And thy Lord hath commanded that ye should worship none but Him, and ye should do good unto your father's mother best. If one of them is old or old in your care, then do not say to both of them "ah" and do not yell at them but say to them noble words, and humble your wings for both out of compassion , And say to them "O Allah, love them both as they love me from childhood" (Al Isra (17): 23)
Allah commands in the Qur'an to glorify the elderly. Whoever does not obey him then gets the threat of great sin, because God has outlined one of the five dosas is opposed to the parents.
Not only that, Allah will fix his punishment for anyone who hurts the heart of parents, consider the following argument:
"Do not associate anything with Him (God), do good to the two (the father's mother)" [Al-An'am 151].
If parents tell an act that associates Allah, or the parents still do not embrace Islam, the dutiful attitude to the parents remains a duty by a child without having to obey the orders of those who violate the Shari'a.
"And if both compel you to associate with Me something that has no knowledge of it, then do not follow both, and keep both of them in the world well, and follow the path of those who return to Me, then only to Me you return, To you what you have done.
- The amount of services of both parents
"And humble your wings for both out of compassion, and say to them" O God love them both as they love me from childhood "[Al Isra (17): 23]
The services of parents, especially mothers, are expressed in a verse of the Qur'an, in which a mother is willing to sacrifice her child, then breastfeed her. All the services of parents when children are young and weak need to be remembered and remembered forever.
- Ridha Allah With Ridha Parents
So noble parent beside Allah, Allah hung his wrath and Ridhanya to parents for his son, so it can be said that we must be careful in behaving and saying to both.
Do not get to hurt the parents just because of a small mistake, a little we need to remember the story of legend minang kabau "malin kundang" well that is a child who was cursed to stone by Allah's permission, because disobeying parents and not recognize parents after he became rich.
That's the consequence for people who do not know how to deal with parents, it's a cursory sound, but the effect is great with God. Notice the following theorem:
"From Abdullah Ibn Amar al-'Ash Radliyallaahu 'anhu that the Prophet sallallaahu' alaihi wa Sallam said:" The keridloan of God depends on the keridloan of the parents and the wrath of God depends on the wrath of the parents. "Tirmidhi's history.
- As Life Motivation
Many successful children in the world because of the role of parents, do not think parents stay silent alone, it is parents who are most influential on the life of a child.
Parents who become life inspiration and life motivation make a child stronger to face the weight of life.
Parents seem to have magic magic that provides power with a long distance, parents seem to be the sun that illuminates the way of life, parents seemed to be a morning dew when a child running an activity,
It can be concluded that parents are not just anyone, they are glorified because of the proximity to God who has given birth and the child until now, his prayers will not stop forever.
- Intermediate Successes of the Future
Some say, life without the support of parents like eating white rice, "tasteless" yes that's what we feel, we could eat rice without side dishes, but would be more excited if added a side dish and a little crackers.
Eating will feel good and fun, that is the picture of the relationship of parents with the life of their children, it could be children running their lives, but feels more meaningful if the motivation of parents to accompany the way of life of a child.
That's what we need to know about the parent's position in a child's life. Many successful people say that "my motivation is parent", "my motivation is mother", "my motivation is family".