Whether your relationship is serious or not, it is necessary to discuss the details of the practice of love and red lines, especially with regard to the details of time and place and to what extent you want to deepen in practice.
It is good to agree on these details together and follow both your conviction and your satisfaction.
Of course, there are many common beliefs about love, sex and sexuality - for example, what people say is what men want from a woman is just sex, or men want to have sex all the time or they do not marry a woman who expresses love for them. There are differences from case to case.
People also differ in their feelings and sexual desires. There are couples who are satisfied with sex once a week and there are those who want or want it twice a day. There is no mistake or right here, but it is about the issue of adaptation and what suits the parties and their willingness to find solutions that suit them and their pleasure and mutual enjoyment. (More about wanting or refusing to have sex)
Do not forget: the word "no" means no and silence is not always a sign of satisfaction.