POV: Aubrey
They said its impossible to find a partner in the internet now a days… I Somehow believe that. But i guess destiny works on its own way…
It all started when i got bored.
You know when “boredom strikes”, you feel like you are the most useless, hopeless, worthless person alive in this earth. You start to wonder if it’s all worthy to live and start all the dramas in your life. But in some point, your mind goes like; “what am I gonna do?” and you start trying new things to satisfy your feelings which can never be.
My name is Aubrey and i can say that this is the climax of my life. I’m a simple college girl that do accounting and my main hobby is dancing with the most awesome group ever in our city.
Everyday, I used to hangout with them, dance with them, do something just to not get bored in life but in some point, things happen as it should be …
The day I saw his profile, is the day when i got so bored. Scrolling through my facebook account, I accidentally clicked this site where I can get to know more people around the world. So, I decided to just sign up because I was bored and I don’t have anything to do all day long. And of course i won't lose anything if i do it. I put my name, my profile picture and my standards as what the site was asking me to put . As I’m scrolling for long hours, I saw his profile and yeah I admit he was looking good so I send an interest to him. This was exactly his profile picture I saw that captured my attention.
<< His profile picture >>
Yep! He was looking good with no doubts. All through out that day, 10% of my mind was already excited to get to know him. But then, I got busy with my friends so I wasn’t able to check actively my profile till late night, he message me on skype and it was not just an ordinary message but a message that could literally ruin your day (well not exactly). Its a message about me catfishing him.
Amazing right? But I didn’t mind that much because I lightly understand him why he send me that beautiful message after we talked..So then, we started to get to know each other after everything was cleared for both sides. Everyday, him and I was starting to have fun, starting to video call , talking on skype every now and then. But before that, He was thinking I’m a poser. Well as you can see to the very first message he wrote, probably his doubts are higher than the highest mountain exist. But on the other hand, I also wonder how he got to that site cause obviously, he was just my ideal guy ..Well I think destiny works on its own. So then , this all happened ,crazy moments begin in just a snap ; an automatic connection between both of us exist.
<< Screen Shots before we personally met >>
I have collections of screenshots with him cause I intent to capture the feelings of that moments and hoping to last forever. Every second with this guy is everything for me even though fights are undeniable, we learn each other’s strength and weaknesses and work with it.
In some point in time, I liked his attitude that leads me to fall for him…I was excited making it to another level for both of us but this guy over thinks that I may not like him because of some reasons and bla bla bla. And I felt something like a “FRIENDZONE” (holy crap!!!<) …Seiously..When a guy over thinks too much? It’s like you wanna beat the shit out of him…
No wonder I fell for him because he isn’t the typical dude but he is the type of guy that every girl will want to be with forever.
Top 5 traits of his that I love:
● Faithfulness
No one wants to be in a relationship with a cheater, right? They said “Once a cheater, always a cheater.” Well luckily, he never cheated in his past relationships and he always secured me that he will never do it. He never tends to overly flirty with every girl he sees, and he always make me feel that I’m the only one. He says what he means, and means what he says. He follow through with his word and stays loyal in our relationship.
● Sense of Humor
Laughter makes the relationship healthy. Its cutely sexy for me to laugh with him almost everyday and see his smile. He is born naturally with sense of humor which made most of my day and he always try to make me laugh even when I’m hella mad at him. Relationship never gets boring if u have a person who truly knows how to make you smile in every situation.
● Integrity
He always stay true to his word and true to himself. If he tells me that he is going to do something, he will do it.
● Honest
He will definitely tell me the truth not just what I want to hear. He tells me what he will do and how he feels about something. It’s true that brutal honesty can be offensive all the times but it’s better to have a guy that tells you the truth than one that fills you with lies.
● Believes in Family
At the end of the day, people seek marriage and a family. He is a man who believes in family, loves his family, and wants to have a family and take care of them in the future. It makes me smile every time he mentions about having family in the future because I know he will be the best and coolest dad ever.
That’s him. He looks so serious but if you get to know him, you’ll get to know the dopest guy alive! Who would thought that a guy that looks like that is trying to find serious relationship now a days in a site? and miraculously, God gave him to me .
He is more than a talented man. He knows how to sing quite good and I witnessed his voice alot of times. When a guy sings for u, u felt like you are the luckiest girl and yes, I believe I am. He loves music so bad that whenever he got a free time, he will make music for everyone . You read it right, he produces music since before and trust me you will fall inlove with his music. His songs are made with emotions that you can feel it from the beats. He got a youtube channel that he made lately, and I am his no. 1 fan. it is called MEGANOD (check it out if you’d like to) he is a fun boy that helps everybody whenever they are in need, especially people who needs an advice, he is pretty good at that cause he is SMART. I think he got a chip in his brain, cause he remembers everything and knows alot of stuff. Haha! Kidding. But seriously, I sometimes call him walking encyclopaedia. Hi is not nerd at all but it just happened that he knows xD.
They have different culture, different language, different at everything. But thanks god he is one of a few that knows perfect english that amazed me cause usually, people from his place dont know english that good. The crazy thing is that he knows not just english, but alot more languages too! But mostly of his friends, cant communicate in english they prefer talking with their languange. I tried learning their thing but damn its hard. It needs time, patience and effort to learn it. Maybe soon i will. He also knows how to dance and make moves, he once strip on me but not fully just for fun you know xD.. Cause at that time, i was feeling lonely and not in the mood so he starts doing stuff that made me smile like a kid.
<< I took Screenshots while he is doing it>>
As i told you, he will make your day no matter what it takes. He, don’t know how to give up. He thinks that if you will try, you can surely make it. I adore him for that. He knew about my dancing career, he doesn't want me to stop but…
I slowly stopped dancing cause things are getting real. Well , I didn’t completely stopped but I just had my priorities. Him and I got into a great relationship with full of laughter, trust, loyalty, honesty, and love with each other although relationship that has distance is really hard to handle, we both manage to fight against the odds . He decided to come in my place and meet me and as I said, he is a man that has integrity, He always stay true to his word and true to himself. If he tells me that he is going to do something, he will do it. And yes, he finally booked his first flight to come here in Philippines.!!!!
<<Two different people, from two different world, met in one point>>
Yes, I am in a Long Distance Relationship. No it’s not easy. Yes, it has been worth every moment…
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