... As we grow up and mature, society teaches us to follow the rules of life. Many times when we "study well" and lose ourselves in these constraints.
When someone says that you are stupid with your choice, smile and say that each person has his or her own choice. If you do not wish good luck to others, do not complain about it. This life, to live true to yourself and feel your life to be useful to someone is the key to a happy life.
When you are alive with emotion, you are alive as a human being. As soon as emotion is lost, you are like a machine. So if work or coffee-gao-money makes you calm-a-way-try, do not think that you are okay. Facing and giving solutions will give you more smiles than you think.