Just when I thought that it was mainly femi-Nazi misandrists who were bringing their propaganda to the Quora platform, I found a group of manginas commenting on the same topic of adult men admiring the beauty of teenage girls. This same Quora forum is titled "Why are some men attracted to 13-15 year old girls?"
Fortunately, there were dissenters on this same forum who challenged the puritanical dogma of the manginas who attempted to lure others into their make-believe world of age-appropriate perfection and wholesome purity. In case you don't know what a "mangina" is, it's a man who caters to the madness of radical feminists. It's a slang term for "male vagina." If you follow me regularly, you probably already knew that.
1. Mangina Dogma Devoid Of Any Truth
In the above-described Quora forum, a Ben O'Regan posted:
For most men, a young girl would be completely unsuitable as a romantic partner because they are in a completely different phase of their life. This is in addition to the legal aspects and also it’s something that other people would find creepy.
Men who have narcisistic personality disorder may want to form romantic relationships with young girls as they lack empathy and are indifferent to the harm they cause others. Narcicists tend to frame any negative reactions from other people as evidence that the narcicist is such an extraordinary person that other people find it hard to deal with them. They are also attracted to girls who are easy to manipulate and control.
So, Mr. O'Regan? You're what can be best described as a self-appointed psychiatrist. You have no educational background in mental health, and you believe that you can read men who fall in love with 13-to-15-year-old girls so accurately. Did it ever occur to you that perhaps adult men gravitate toward girls that age in non-Platonic relationships because these men may have missed out on the teenage dating scene back when they were teenagers themselves?
It doesn't take a rocket scientist to see that there is this thing called nostalgia that causes adult men to want to fill a certain void that was left in their life from being on the outside looking in as teenage boys.
The fact alone that Mr. O'Regan throws words around like "creepy" shows you that he is another mangina who cannot see beyond all the stupidity of the propaganda that femi-Nazi misandrists spew to the public. He views this topic with tunnel vision rather than from a bird's-eye view.
Furthermore, if anyone reading my article here actually believes that the United States has the best statutory-rape laws in the world, then I insist that you read the online publication titled The Paradox of Statutory Rape by Russell L. Christopher and Kathryn Hope Christopher from beginning to end. It is brutally honest about teenage sex and the law.
That same online publication will provide you with the real deal regarding the high statutory ages of consent throughout the United States instead of some sugarcoated narrative meant to lure you into some kind of white-picket-fence fantasy world. Mr. O'Regan is definitely a mangina who is clueless about the harm that the statutory-rape laws do to our nation in their present state.
My cousin met his late wife when he was 30 years old and she was only 15 years old, and he didn't have a Narcissistic Personality Disorder. He married her a year later, and he gave her a long, happy life. Mr. O'Regan cannot argue with those facts.
Throughout the rest of the Quora forum, the others quibble back and forth with one another about whether society should allow or forbid adult men to have relationships with girls between 13 and 15 years of age. Herein I will quote the posts that stand out the most. I will ignore the trolls.
Therein Lois Beyer posted:
I was involved with someone who I discovered was always running to windows on both sides of the house to leer out the window when little girls were walking around, about 13–15. I'd say 15 was the max. He'd pump me for names- “WHO IS SHE?. WHO IS THAT??” he'd RUN out the door and sit in the yard with a huge book, watching the little girls on swings. Then he'd fight with me to ask them to come in. “Tell them to come in. Come on.” Then he'd say “are you horny?”. I told him he needed a therapist and never went back. The therapist told him he had to stop chasing little girls. He argued “not right away, it will take a while. My father told me to look at them.” This was when he was 67–68 yrs old. The therapist told him she can't work with him anymore. I am sure people knew he is a pedophile, but no one told me. He never had anything at all to do with me sexually. I've heard since then (4 yrs ago) that several women in his environment don't speak to him. Maybe he got caught.
A pedophile has no sexual interest in a girl between 13 and 15 years of age. That's why you call him a pedophile, because, otherwise, he'd be preying on prepubescent children under 11 years old. C S sets Ms. Beyer straight on this fact.
ネコ then corrects Ms. Beyer and claims that she is describing ephebophilia. All right. Ephebophilia is nothing more than a social construct, but ネコ is not completely wrong. The man that Ms. Beyer described could also be a teleiophile depending upon the bodily and sexual maturity of these teenage girls whose beauty he admired.
It bewilders me why this man would go to a female therapist. A woman is not going to be able to understand a man's mind no matter how much education she has in the mental-health profession.
SageAdvice makes an important point. Therein SageAdvice posted:
You are talking about relationships. The question wasn’t about relationships. The question was about finding people hot. You can’t choose who you find hot and you can find people hot without wanting a relationship with them or even to talk about them.
It happens more often than not. Many American teenage girls aren't even approachable regardless of how close to them you are in age difference. They'll pull their cell phone out and ignore you when you try to strike up a conversation with them.
Therein Ashley Williams posted:
No, I was 13- 14 before. I had friends who were 13–14, I went to school with girls the same age. As much as some act like they're mature, they really not at all. If they're not mature enough mentally to have kids, you shouldn't f--- them period.
The problem I'm having with your narrative, Ashley Williams, is that society and the law will give a free pass for teenage boys to have sex with girls that age and be blameless whenever they get them pregnant. On the other hand, if an adult man gets intimately involved with a girl that young and he takes responsibility for his actions by providing child support for their baby or even marrying the girl, somehow he cannot convince society and the law that he has honorable intentions for that girl.
Such a man will be pervert-shamed and branded as a villain no matter how much he demonstrates that he really loves a girl that age and wants to do right by her. Teenage fathers have it way too easy in the American culture.
Therein Dalina Michel responded to a deleted comment and posted:
Its still illigal and creepy. Most 15 yr olds dont even understand the concepts of love. Youre just trying to justify it to yourself.
Do we have ourselves a femi-Nazi misandrist here? She has actually convinced herself that American statutory-rape laws are infallibly perfect and just. My cousin's wife understood the concept of love when she was 15 years old and she first met him back when he was 30 years old. They got married a year later, and the marriage lasted over four decades until her recent death; so put a sock in it, Dalina. Your opinion is not the gospel truth.
Therein SageAdvice posted:
It is illegal to engage in sexual activity with a 13–15 year old. It is not illegal to find them attractive.
Therein Haley replied to him:
As a 16 year old this gave me an immense feeling of anger boiling in my stomach. Stop giving people advice you don’t live up to your username.
I get it, Haley. You think that jerks like Levi Johnston are infallible and that nonconformists like Don Johnson have no moral high ground upon which to stand. However, someday you're going to find yourself having to see things beyond your rose-colored glasses. Sometimes and more often than not black can be white and white can be black.
Therein Todd Pages posted:
Of course their off limits, doesn’t mean it’s not desirable.
Therein Haley responded to him and posted:
I am scared for the women and girls around you.
Why, Haley? Are men not able to express their feelings and opinions without being pervert-shamed? Yet females like you are always complaining that boys and men are notorious for slut-shaming young girls and women. The female half of the American population reeks with hypocrisy and double standards.
Therein Jaden Masota posted:
Most people who say things like this don’t realize/don’t want to admit that someone older than them was a sick person who manipulated them into a relationship.
Oh, brother. Here we go again. As far as Jaden Masota is concerned, older men are to blame for all of teenage girls' problems, when, in fact, there are more underage boys sexually victimizing girls that young than there are adult men doing so. I don't know if Jaden is a male or female. If Jaden is a man, then he's definitely a mangina. If Jaden is a woman, then we have here a classic femi-Nazi misandrist.
Therein Maz posted:
You’re only 14 so you can’t really have an opinion on this till you’re older tbh when I was your age I used to think my relationship with a 30 year old man was okay till it left me traumatised but I felt I was mature enough to be promiscuous and it’s left me feeling lost now.. so no as a 20 year old woman looking back 13 year old girls are not ready for that relationship with a much older man. My mind now is so different to how it was then it’s an unbelievable difference so please just wait
Maz? Nobody here is saying that toxic relationships between adult men and teenage girls don't exist. However, what makes you believe that if you had connected up with a boy the same age as you back when you were 14 years old, everything in your love life would have been so much better?
So many years ago I came across a story about a 15-year-old boy who got into trouble for threatening his 14-year-old girlfriend with a knife if she refused to have his baby. After he was arrested, the judge gave him a slap on the wrist. He sent him to a juvenile detention center that was more of a vacation resort than a place of punishment.
Other nations have statutory ages of consent as low as 15, 14, and even 13 years old, and those nations seem to get along better with the way their youth deals with age-gap relationships than nations that have higher statutory ages of consent. I get so sick and tired of these gushy, mushy love stories about a couple that met when both parties were 13 years old and later married. Their marriages and their families are far from perfect except in Disney films and Harlequin romance novels.
Therein Clara Alebrook posted:
Bull… it's rape pure and simple. It's manipulation, and cruel. What's wrong with an older, knows how to run a household? No… at 13 it's slavery and violent abuse. You are probably a guy trying to defend your actions by lies.. disgusting.
Ms. Alebrook? Your narrative is the ravings of another conspiracy theorist who stereotypes and generalizes about relationships between adult men and teenage girls. You don't have a clue about what really goes on in these types of relationships, because you only wish to demonize them without really looking into the facts about them.
2. The Virtual Inaccessibility Of Romance In The U.S.
Marriage and relationships are becoming less popular than in years past here in the United States as time moves on. Therefore, why do we, as Americans, need social conventions that stigmatize certain relationships or laws that criminalize them?
The above-cited Quora forum doesn't provide any insight as for why adult men fall in love with girls between 13 and 15 years old. It mostly sets out to misrepresent such occurrences as some kind of societal abomination. It makes it no secret why there is a steep decline in the birthrate here in the United States.
In her video below, a YouTuber who goes by the user name of Seizure Girl provides her perspective regarding how our society is destroying itself and its ability to express love. She holds nothing back in her video.
A Human-Trafficking Survivor Exposes The Brutal Reality Of Our Society's Decadence In The Areas Of Love And Intimacy
Americans are getting to the point that they are seeking to substitute love with something much less promising. Trying to find love is like the lyrics of the song below.
The Song Titled "How Love Hurts" By The Sylvers
The fact that our nation has laws and conventions that control who gets to fall in love with who only shows you how our society has failed its people. My article here is not an opinion editorial but a breakdown of the bigger picture.
3. Final Thoughts
We all need to stop placing a blind faith in the viewpoints of pseudo-intellectuals in the form of manginas and femi-Nazi misandrists whenever we find ourselves questioning the fairness of social taboos and age-related laws. Moral panics only bring down a civilization.
Critical thinking is our strongest weapon against the little minds that try to force their ways upon us. We must use our brains and set aside our emotions in utilizing this same weapon.
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