"The art of letting go"
It takes a long time, great effort and so much pain to finally accept what is actually happening, and to start deal with it. Letting harmful things and people and even harmful dreams and wishes go, to start focusing on real things, and directing your efforts and feelings to the right direction is a very good start. We focus on things we want and people who we want to be with, and forget to think if these things are really what we meant to do or what we are really good at, or those are the people who we are really comfortable with.
We just want what we want. If we just take a moment to think about this we will make great changes in our lifes. 