We appreciate all your efforts (our wives) but we bring you in our home so as to make things easier for us (men)
Like my uncles wife always rant

I don't need a female house help

My sister if you can't trust your husband on ordinary house help what makes you think he gonna trust you by bringing male house help.
So it's better she Cary her cross since she don't need a helper
I'm just asking though it's not my hand writing