Polarization gets a bad reputation in the social dynamics world.
When people hear the world polarization, they think:
'Oh my, it seems like I am ruffling some feathers!'
And in a way, you are.....
But that is a good thing!
Let me explain.
In the social world, it is impossible to be loved by everyone.
But want to know something even deeper?
It's impossible to be hated by everyone as well. Just doesn't happen.
Picture some of the most despised people around the planet.
If you look closer, then you will see they have die hard supporters as well.
Even serial killers have their own fan clubs around the world.
Weird as fuck.
Human nature does not make much sense at all, I know.
You can't be fully loved or fully hated.
So what next?
Well, I want you to ask yourself a question based off this scenario:
Path 1:
If I am fake, I will have people who love me & hate me.
Path 2:
If I am real, I will have people who love me & hate me.
Which path sounds more pleasant?
I already know you are choosing path 2.
But what's funny is that most people spend life adopting path 1.
Weird as fuck.
How do I know? Because I used to take path 1.
I thought if I was a synthetic version of myself, then everyone and their moms would love me.
But that was not the case. I still had haters & friends.
So I altered my approach. I decided to transform from synthetic -> authentic.
And in return, I still had haters & friends.
But this time? I was way happier with myself.
I realized I was going to get the same outcome either way, so why not at least going out being real?
That's how to correctly polarize.
You be yourself & magnetize the right crowd, while at the same time repel the wrong crowd.
Your goal is to get people who like you, to love you & people who hate you, to do whatever they want.
Don't spend any time trying to convince people who are iffy or have a distaste towards you to like you.
Not worth the energy.
Let them do their own thing. Just focus on your tribe.
Properly polarizing is a key to communications skills.
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