Hello steemians!
Gaining friendships and having better personal relationships is an action that can greatly improve your life. The nature of human beings is not understood without a society. We are social beings and the relationships we maintain with others greatly condition our happiness.
We can understand society as the exchange of value between individual relationships. In addition, the value that individuals contribute together is much greater than the value they provide separately.
I will give you different tips to become a sociable person with everyone, friends, family and even complete strangers.
1- TRUST IN YOU
Accept yourself, accept unconditionally and believe in all your possibilities. The security attitude of the people who are accepted is magnetic and attracts other people.
2- CONTRIBUTE
The simple fact of being generous with others, of sharing and of contributing good times without expecting anything in return is going to turn you into a person that everyone wants to be with. Besides, giving is one of the most comforting sensations. Contribute to others unquestionably will lead you to become a more sociable person.
3- INTERESTED IN OTHERS
The genuine interest in others will be very comforting to the other person, with what you will want to share and enjoy more moments with you. The big key is to show real interest without judging others. Empathize, accept them and do not judge them.
4- YOUR CIRCLES
Do not limit yourself to interact with your closest circle, you do not have to have any fear of having conversations with strangers. It will surprise you what you can get to learn from people who are outside your circle. Who knows, maybe you discover your passion through the experiences that can bring you.
Become a person with confidence, kind and friendly and you will not have problems in maintaining this type of conversations.
5- KEEP CONTACT
Take care of your social relationships, keep in touch and show interest in obtaining a direct communication channel with the other person if this turns out to be an interesting person. Any day can be good to maintain contact with a friend.
6- JOIN ACTIVITIES THAT ARE REALIZED IN THE GROUP
Participating in group activities is a great opportunity to socialize, the people who do them already tend to be open and predisposed. It is also a great escape route from the routine and will help you get out of your comfort zone.
7- TAKE CARE OF YOUR BODY LANGUAGE
It seems very logical but in practice you will realize that many people do not pay attention to the position of their body. Acts as simple as the ones I show you below are going to encourage you to start or have better conversations.
Relax your face and your shoulders.
Do not cross your arms.
Remove the obstacles between you and the other person.
Get closer to others without invading your space.
Keep eye contact, do not avoid it but do not fix your gaze too much because you can make the other person feel violent.
The more accessible you show yourself, the more successful you will be when it comes to initiating conversations with others.
Become a person with whom it is pleasant to pass the time. We are all attracted to these types of people who are magnetic. Be friendly, smile and above all ... PRACTICE!
And you, do you have any other advice? I would be happy to read them!
Be happy!
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