Many kinds of losses we have unconsciously experienced in this life, including when considering human judgment is more important than God's judgment.
Are there people like this? Many, the proof is not a few of us who like good praise, so to look ordinary in the eyes of other people do not want to.
He is willing to change his appearance, lifestyle, and morals just to look good in the human eye. Even though it is a loss if life is only focused on seeking recognition from humans, because that adds good is God, not human.
So it's smart from now on, living according to our abilities and needs, not in accordance with our will. Because if the will we follow then even to death we will always feel less and less.
If by living a simple life makes you happy, why are you still busy acting pretentiously rich, pretentious, and pretentious just for the sake of a compliment, because it will only make us lose before God.
If just ordinary life makes you feel peaceful, why is it still pretentious to continue to borrow other people's lives?
Should it be only about mundane, then don't be competing to be the ultimate, let alone what makes you so proud of being still debt here and there. Na'udzubillah
It's simple to bring life, because we live in this world is only temporary. Then stop competing for prestige, especially for a woman, live your life as your true self.
It's better to be yourself even though it's very simple, rather than being someone else's self, but ultimately losing your self-esteem and true identity.
Actually someone will be valuable and valuable in the eyes of others, not only because he is rich, high-ranking, and educated.
But when he is able to simplify himself and his life with the nobility of morality and faith. So that his identity was awakened from an independence and goodness that God has compared with his cheapness.
Why are competing to look good in the human eye? Whereas those who really give extra good are God.
It's better to just be busy with the time we have by continuing to learn to realize that God's judgment is the most important thing so that we cannot do human recognition.