So I look at this picture ... the first time I saw this view ... I missed so many of the details ... I also so many things others missed .... reminded me that sometimes I write things or say things without fully thinking about how someone else may take those words.... I can say something innocently and it be interpreted as hostile or rude ..... so strange.
Sometimes I think we interpret things the way we see ourselves .... we maybe insulted bc we are self conscious... we maybe hurt because we hurt others without thinking .... we may feel guilty ... bc our actions may not have been sincere .... there are so many ways things can be interpreted.
I’m so done with everyone reading into things .... interpreting things the way that benifits them ... or feeing like I have to make sure I have run all possible Senerios in my head.... if I want to be hurtful , you will know .... I will tell you ... if I want to insult you ... I will do it blantenly... I’m pretty much done with having filters ... so if I talk to you ... it’s bc I want to .... if I want to pick a fight ... I’ll yell and scream at you ... if something I say is offensive... let me know ... I may not even realize it .
My sister... that I haven’t really spoken to in years .... is back in my life .... at a distance of course ... and everything I say gets twisted .... it’s very frustrating..... anyone else deal with these issues ? What ever happened to saying what you mean and meaning what you say ?