Someone once told me that you should Stop Thinking about Your Own Problems and the Solution will come through. At that moment the Line sounded pretty cool to me but later in Life, I realised that it wasn't True at all. There is No Magic Solution that comes to you if you stop Worrying about Your Problems. You have to solve your own Problems in Life.
Those are Your Problems to solve and nobody in this Modern Age will come down to solve that for you. I get that having Hope is good but to have Blind Hope is just dangerous. Yes, you could have some Help from your Friends and Family but it should be You who strikes the Final Hammer.
I personally believe in having Balance in Life in almost everything. You should heed to your Responsibility but at the same time Treat yourself with some Me Time and have Fun to Revigorate Yourself. So in that same sense try to balance your Problems in Life. For starters write them in a Diary and set a Timeline for yourself to solve one Problem at a time.
PS: I guess that's it. I just poured down what I had in Mind. Don't know why but I was in a Bit of Rage.