Bitterness; Anger; Pain; hate; Revenge
Humans, being who we are, are bond to do things that would hurt others and cause them pain. Sometimes our actions are intentional, in other cases, there are no intentions, but certain actions we take, hurt the people around us and those we care about it.
Many times, we have allowed the bitterness and pain inside of us control us, that all our thoughts are geared towards ill will, hate and revenge.
The question we really need to ask ourselves is, does any of these (bitterness, anger, pain, hate, revenge) produce good result?
Well if you want to know what my answer is, they yield no positive result, neither would they give a feeling of fulfilment. Rather they will destroy you
I saw a movie recently, Acrimony.No intentions to review the movie here, but I had to give it some very deep thought.
Acrimony: best describe with bitterness, anger, pain, ill will, bad blood, furry, hate, hostility, resentment and so many other words. One single explanation; Mental disorder(craziness) says it all.
The movie gives a better picture of what hate, anger, pain, resentment, revenge can do to you, when you give them a space in your heart.
Bitterness; Omg, it eats you up like a virus. Believe me, it is worse than a virus itself. It will eat you, suck you of any likely joy, drain all your happiness and leave you in a stranded frustrated world of your own.
Anger: This is as bad and bitterness, or even worse. If you don't get a hold of it and you allow it control you, my oh my;
I wish I could help you take away the regret and pain it will serve you. But I can't, neither can anyone one else, not even you. It will leave you in a world of regret you will never be able to work away from in a very long time.
Revenge: Driven by bitterness, anger and pain. When you dwell in the thoughts of revenge, it drives you like a wild fire, sucks you in and you get carried away with only the thoughts of revenge. It will always feel like you are doing the right thing and you will get your closure once you achieved your goal.
Amazingly, what seems like something of fulfilment, will leave you in a world of emptiness and guilt.
Bitterness, Anger, Pain, Hate and Revenge all work together to destroy you if you yield to any one of them.
What was portrayed on the movie Acrimony tell a lot about how bitterness, anger, hate, resentment, pain; drives us to Revenge.
Nothing or no one will seem right to you,at that point.
In conclusion, irrespective of how hurt you feel, let go of the bitterness. Share if you have to, talk to someone, it sure helps. Trust me, you do not want to be left in that dark world where bitterness, hate and revenge will dump be.
my dear, it is a dark and scary world. Life is too short and too much fun for us to waste a part of it in a dark.
Thank you once again for stopping by and reading.