Anyone would certainly be unhappy and not accepted if he was hurt, betrayed by his trust. Forgiveness may indeed be difficult for a heart that is still inflamed with hatred, but still you have to learn to mengikhlaskan.
The proof is not a few of us who in their hearts still have a grudge, so it is difficult to welcome new happiness, even though those who come have someone who is sometimes better.
Actually it's simple to make life okay even if it's hurt, abandoned for example.
So what simple method does it mean? That is to waste all hatred, control the heart to stay calm, because hatred that resides in the heart will make you difficult to be happy because of the relentless complaints
Therefore, learn to forget everything, teach the heart to keep legowo on divine destiny.
Because if the heart is accustomed to believing that this is the best way God will give you someone who is better, forgiving him will be easy for you to do.
Sincerity is the main thing that must be trained to be careful when hurt, sincerity will ultimately lead you to happiness that is more perfect
Maybe the way to hurt you is very cruel, but somehow this is God's way that you can get someone more appropriate. So be patient!
maybe the way he hurts you may leave a very deep wound in your heart, but believe that God has something beautiful for you.
Because it is very unlikely that God wrote a bad story to His servant if God did not provide a beautiful story afterwards. Because, it has been mentioned in Al-qur'an that behind difficulties there must be convenience.
