Sounds very funny, when someone who is dating then breaks up because of being betrayed or left behind saying "too cruel you are a rabbi", you deserve to say that? After all, from the beginning God warned not to play love in the wrong relationship.
Why? Because God knows that wrong relationships like dating and such are only a waste of time and will cause many problems.
Heartache and disappointment, for example, then you never question God's destiny in the midst of your frailty, because you are the one who hopes for him too much, then ignores God's commands.
Yes, don't try to blame fate, because your illness, your disappointment, and your restlessness is indeed you who created it yourself.
And hasn't God forbidden you to hope in other than Him? Now, if that is the case, then the wrong is yourself, and this bad fate you choose.
In fact, from the beginning God has warned you not to date and such, because God knows that in the end he will disappoint you, if God does not bless him.
That is why God always says "love is more to me, because I will definitely reciprocate perfectly". Yes, only God is able to return our love perfectly with all His goodness.
So, be softer your heart by realizing that the bad destiny that you are experiencing is your fault, because you are the one who has turned away from God's love.
Then Don't ever question God's destiny, because whatever God has destined for you is the best.
Then about your illness? About your disappointment? It is all your fault, because it is you alone who has presumptuously turned away from God's love, and is even more confident in his sweet promises.
Yes, you who do not believe in His commands, then do not blame Allah and convict God of cruelty because he does not approve of your love.
Because of the extraordinary heartache that you feel created from your own carelessness, because you don't believe that dating is actually a tough relationship.
So the pain you feel is not the God who made it, but you chose it yourself. Because the wound you invited him.
Then you must never question destiny, because God has directed you to a good relationship from the beginning, but you alone choose the wrong way and the wrong way.
Then what should you do now? That is to realize everything with full sincerity, and return hope to God through your repentance, because surely God will give you better than him. Insha Allah
