7 Ways to Solve Life Problems
Human life will never escape from problems and exams. Because that's where the quality of a human can be seen. The difference is, he can solve the problem well or even getting buried with the problem.
The size of the problem cannot be separated from your state of mind. Sometimes unwittingly a small problem can get big because your mind is conditioned that way.
Therefore, when the problem is approaching make sure your mind is not swept away by the current in the problem.
Remember too, no problem without a solution. You just need a clear mind to figure out how to deal with problems that come insistently and twist your life.
To help you live a better life, here are 7 ways to resolve any issues you're worth trying.
1. Surrender
You will never be able to deal with and overcome problems in the state of mind and heart that is upset. For that, condition your mind and heart to be calmer. Calmness can open your mind to face problems more positively.
One way to gain inner peace is by surrendering to God the Almighty. Never try to shoulder the problem alone. Because human strength must have its limit.
To surrender mean to do nothing. Being surrendered is an effort to be able to find solutions to problems encountered. To whom shall we ask for help other than He who is Great?
2. Find the Roots of the Problem
You also can not find the most appropriate way to solve the problem of life if you have not found the root of the problem.
Know and understand clearly what problems are surrounding your life. Thus you will have a clear and precise direction for finding the solution.
By knowing the root of the problem clearly, you can know correctly that the effort is already running on the right track.
Do not until you are struggling to find a solution, it has nothing to do with the problem being faced.
Try a deeper look and a little look back, how the beginning of the problem can arise.
It could be a problem arising from things you've never thought of before. Things that you think all right, turn out to be the trigger problem.
Read: How to Find Root Problems with Techniques
3. Not Exaggerating the Problem
The thing you have to keep in mind when looking at how to fix the problem is not to raise an existing problem.
Do not have "flavorings" in the problem. Because it will actually make the problem becomes awful alias worse.
Those who often exaggerate the problem are those who often suffer from their own thoughts. So keep your mind under control and not make your life worse.
However, that does not mean you have to downplay the problem. Provide the appropriate portion of the problem. Do not exaggerate, nor be reduced. So you can find the most appropriate and wise way to solve the problem.
In short, do not complicate yourself by raising the problem from the actual condition.
4. Look at the Other Viewpoint
It may be that when problems come up, you are only transfixed by your own views and way of thinking. It's good, you try to get out of the corner you use and look for another angle.
This will open your mind that the problem is not as heavy as you think.
For example, when you fight with a partner, there must be a lot of egos that appears. At that time, each side insisted on their point of view. That's what makes fighting difficult to achieve peace.
Therefore, when the heart and mind are calmer, try to see from the other person's point of view. You will definitely find something different.
This is something you must understand so that you can find the best solution.
5. Positive Thinking
You will not be able to find a way to solve a problem when your mind is still filled with negativity.
When prejudice fills your mind and heart, you will find only a dark path. Not a bright path that can guide you to get the solution of the problems encountered.
Positive thinking becomes one of the paths you have to go through if you want to solve the problem. With this condition, your mind will be much more open. Includes willing to accept input from other parties to the problems you face.
With positive thinking, you are helped in reducing the burden of the problem. When the load feels lighter, your mind is automatically more clear and able to see the path that must be taken in getting a solution.
6. Pray with Full Faith
Praying is also one way that is often done to overcome life problems. By praying to God, you are directly handing over the problems you face to the Almighty.
Pray with full confidence, even though you never know when your prayer will be granted.
Because only God knows what is best for us. Perhaps, something that we think is good turns out bad in God's eyes.
Therefore, ask to always be instructed that the path taken is the best for you and the environment around you.
7. Self Evaluation
Whatever the problem that happened to you, you should still always introspective. Look deeper, if more problems occur because of your own mistake or not.
Evaluating yourself for mistakes that have been made into an effort that you should not miss when you encounter problems.
Doing self-introspection will also keep you from possibly blaming others for the problems that hit. This action is much more sporty and noble than throwing mistakes to others.
Repent of all mistakes, then you will be helped to find solutions to the problem.
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No problems arise without a solution. Just as there is no drugless disease.
First, understand the source before you start looking for ways to fix the problem. Understanding the source of the problem in more depth will help you find the most telling solution.
