People who do not see hermaphrodite as 'boredom' or 'panic' may be unable to find, especially in at Dhaka in Bangladesh. Hermaphrodite is presence in public places such as parks, roads and public transport. Suddenly by holding hands in front of the people or by touching the chest, they collect money.
If they get men and women or young people with together, they will be able to spread the funny or romantic comments to the husband and wife or boyfriend-lover and earn money by force.
If the money is not given, then the incident of shocking remarks in obscenity is also happening. Even if you do not give money, sometimes even raising their hand toward the sensitive organs of a male.
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The news of embarrassing situation of people comes in the media when the extortion of the hermaphrodite is happened.
Therefore, there is no doubt that the name of a vicious circle in our society is hermaphrodite.
But why do hermaphrodite choose such life? Did you ever think that?
From family to society, they are only subjected to insults, ridicule, contempt and abuse.
Have we been able to create a social reality like living an honorable job?No
Have we ensured in this society the rights of hermaphrodite?No, Cannot.
Can a child go to school today as a hermaphrodite? Will any family introduce her child as hermaphrodite today?No, Cannot.
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We have to think about the culture of obloquy.
If we cannot change this condemnation and shame society, a neglected youth will grow up with fear and shame and arrogance. When he grows up with a pseudo-identity in society called himself a boy or a girl, his mind will be cleansed, sorrow and deprivation.
As a result, he would not mind himself as a part of the main public.
In the fear ofobloquy, the family also thinksthat the hermaphrodite children are a burden of family. So fleeing from the family is like a release.
Hermaphrodite finds different communities to survive. Learn from Guru Ma (Hermaphrodite God mother). When they are able to learn, they can play with a clap of hands, swinging their waist, and making a hard make-up with their face.
In other words, in order to survive, a lot of forced labor and extortion in the hands of the hermaphrodite.
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The government of Bangladesh has recognized, hermaphrodite as the third gender. But there is no change in the social view of hermaphrodite.
They are unthinkable in this society. They have some rights in their paper. But in reality they are neglected in health and education.
That is,directly and indirectly, our collective reciprocity has been cursed them.
So, not only calculate the hermaphrodite's fault, but now we had to move forward towards them. They have to prepare for a human society.
The society does not want to be underestimated due to gender identity. The society which hermaphrodite people like men and women will be equally dignified.
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Not just begging, hermaphrodite wants to join the work.
Having a chance to work in a tough country such as Pakistan, Brihannla News Reader and International fame Model.
Neighboring India, Kinnor has also been elected as a public representative.
It means that if you have a mental condition of work, then it is possible forhermaphrodite to choose a decent livelihood. Maybe this walkwaybe difficult to start at the beginning. But barriers that could be overcome.
In this connection, the organizations of hermaphrodite in Bangladesh need a strong role. How to choose a respectable job after coming out of sex and extortion, they will now have to pay more attention.
There will be arrangements for hermaphrodite training. The government will have to put pressure to make them easily bank-loan so that the hermaphrodite can trade.
Government and non-government organizations can appoint hermaphrodite from the driver, postman, cook, and start executive positions.
These appointments will create examples in society. As a result, others will be more motivated. This is how a whole change will come.
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Hermaphrodite is not physically half-female or male. There are also those who are physically male but in mentally he is women. As a result, she wants to lead a life like a woman.
This is his 'choice' or like or dislike.
'Choice' also has a private subject.
If a woman or a man is dissatisfied with her sexual identity and wants to change it, then it does not have any right to interfere.
In the Western world, nowadays hermaphroditeis changing sex or choosing sexually-preferred lives.
In Bangladesh, perhaps one day the economic power of many hermaphrodite will increase. Then somebody will change their penis by surgery. Find their expected Life
But before that we need achievethe culture of respecting people's.
We need to build a liberal society where no gender or discrimination of women or men or hermaphrodite, a person will get a chance and respect without gender discrimination.
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