How decision-making influences our lives
I want to tell those people that their lives do not go according to plan or maybe not in the way they always wanted; that is, we often go through situations of hopelessness, not only with regard to the economic aspect, but also to decision-making due to situations that may arise in our lives only once and that will depend on our future.
Losing an opportunity may be the worst decision that a person who is not happy with their life can do , suppose they do everything "right" according to the bylaws, that is, they graduate from high school and postulate In college, they graduate from a career that was possibly the one they dreamed of since they were small (as is also the case that it was the first thing they had or that their parents decided), anyway…
¿After?
Start work, routine, wake up early, get home late, have an average salary, make a family, get married, have children, etc ... That's what they put on our chip since we are very small, now :
What happens if we do not do things that way? Will we be unsuccessful? Or on the contrary, will we be successful?
Life is full of opportunities bigger than others and each one takes us to a different place, the fact that you have not been a graduate or do not have children does not mean that you have had less success than the one that did, perhaps he be happier than the one that followed the social norms invented by WHO KNOWS; since if there was a "perfect life model" maybe we would all follow . The decisions we make can show us totally different paths, with sacrifices and challenges that we must be willing to face; everything is to take advantage of it or let it go.
If a person is presented with an opportunity, whether at work or in the family, he should take advantage of it, especially if he does not consider himself "happy with his life", do something different to change it, in many books we are clearly saying "Change the road but do not change the goal "," everything is about attitude "," a good decision can change your life ", is written everywhere and that's what life is about, it sounds that simple ... but I know that is not so easy to do, we are used to being inside a circle of comfort that we do not even go out to try something new that comes to us for fear of failing , and although we are not where we want We remain planted like trees for years without changing anything at all. Have you not noticed that the best people have managed to emerge after several setbacks? That at the time most of them maybe even their close friends at some point hesitated and turned their backs on them?
Yes, you must know that these stories are constantly repeated, we are what we think and that is what we attract, when you have the conviction to do something that takes advantage of it (studying very well on sheets and paper as my parents say: PRO and against) in the most frank way possible, that is something that can be done by others, it is not necessary to show it to other people, while sincere they are much better so the results do not go To fall by surprise, the worst thing that a human being can do is to deceive himself with ideas or plans that from the beginning are destined to fail.
Many will ask why I decided today to talk about this, currently in my personal life I have been presented with an opportunity, a GREAT opportunity, which requires a BIG change and in which I must sacrifice MANY things (at first instance), my family, My partner, my friends, my doggy children, so I have decided to write a little about how I am facing this and how I feel, it is a small window that I am opening my mind to try to drain many emotions, I would like it if someone is about to change the course of his life drastically know that I am here, on the other side of the world going through something similar, I still breathe, I still fight, still alive, we all go through difficult times, we must all make decisions that sometimes do not have the immediate result we want and there will always be people who question the decision we are going to make; they sit, they ask, they question ... that is normal, more if it is close people who care about us; Do not be intimidated by anything, much less by anyone, if the plans are written and you have a clear goal you are definitely destined for success.
The most important thing is to be clear about the objective and never change it, it is good to put time lapses to achieve each one; but WAIT, we can not decline because our plans are delayed or things do not arrive as soon as we expected them, we must continue insisting, with a clear mind, analyze each step cold and know that if things still do not come and are out of our scope we just have to give it a little more time until we achieve the result we want.
Jennifer Jiménez
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