We live and day by day we grow in different ways. We learn innumerable life lessons that sometimes shake our world and make us changed.
CHANGE
The very constant thing in this very world that we are existing is change. That is one darn scary to most of us as we have been used to conforming the norms or safely staying in our comfort zone. However, some of us are braver enough to accept change on their lives as they are more accepting to the things that come their way.
Those people are admirable as they can easily let go of things that are beyond control. We wish we could be as positive as they are so that change will not be heavy to take when it crosses our path.
FRIENDSHIP
On friendship, change is common. Sometimes, the ones we thought we could rely on are the very first people who turn their back on us when we need them. It’s painfully funny as we somehow just fooled ourselves in the first place for making ourselves thought that we have them as our army - thinking they’re always there to uplift us or support us in some way.
Perhaps, their interests now are entirely different from ours.
We get sulk or completely upset knowing that things can never be the way they used to be. Looking back to how things started we get even more disappointed and saddened for the change they have shown on us. However, there is nothing we can do as things change over time, sometimes without a warning.
Well, maybe there was never really a real friendship in the first place after all. What happened in the beginning was probably for benefits. We cannot help ourselves but think that way as true friendship can stand the test of time.
Anyway, why fret? Change is constant as cliché as may sound but that is a real thing. People do change.
NO ONE STAYS THE SAME
As we continue to keep learning life, we do realize that change happens in so many ways that affect our lives massively. And that is surely inevitable. We can never stop it, so the very best thing we all can do is to accept it.
Those people whom we thought as friends change, but that is alright. That is one of life’s realities. Well, setting them free from our circles is a thing that we can do best.
That experience changes us to change our perception and be more accepting or open to the thought that no one really stays the same, most especially to those who are never meant to stay with us for a lifetime.
This is a continuation of my PAUSE FOR THOUGHT BLOG: WEEK 23
~Month of JUNE
Week 22 click here MONEY AND LIVING TO UPLIFT OTHERS | PAUSE FOR THOUGHT
~Month of MAY
Week 21 click here …AND DREAMS ARE REAL, BE BOLD! |PAUSE FOR THOUGHT
Week 20 click here NEVER LOSE HOPE IN LOVE |PAUSE FOR THOUGHT
Week 19 click here DEVELOP YOUR POTENTIAL FULLY, NEVER SETTLE FOR MEDIOCRITY |PAUSE FOR THOUGHT
Week 18 click here REJECTION IN LOVE: HOW SOME MEN SEE IT| PAUSE FOR THOUGHT
~Month of APRIL
Week 17 click here KINDNESS AS A UNIVERSAL LANGUAGE | PAUSE FOR THOUGHT
Week 16 click here MAYBE IT'S NOT HOW YOU DO WELL IN SCHOOL BUT HOW YOU DO WELL IN LIFE, GENERALLY | PAUSE FOR THOUGHT
Week 15 click here STOP COMPLAINING, CHANGE YOUR SITUATION INSTEAD |PAUSE FOR THOUGHT
Week 14 click here I MADE IT! | SUCCESS OF MY 13-WEEK SELF-IMPROVEMENT CHALLENGE
~Month of MARCH
Week 13 click here ALL BEAUTIFUL THINGS ARE MEANT TO END
Week 12 click here NO THOUGHT OF 'I WISH I COULD HAVE DONE BETTER
Week 11 click here BEING A RESPONSIBLE ADULT AND AGING GRACEFULLY
Week 10 click here IN LOVE? LADIES, DON'T BE BLINDED, SPOT THE ABUSIVE TREATMENT FROM YOUR PARTNER | CELEBRATING INTERNATIONAL WOMEN'S DAY
Week 9 click here JEALOUS? WHY NOT CELEBRATE OTHER PEOPLE'S SUCCESS?
~Month of FEBRUARY
Week 8 click here THEY'RE RACIST SO SHE SLAPPED THEM WITH MERCEDES BENZ
Week 7 click here DO NOT TAKE ALL THINGS PERSONALLY
Week 6 click here LIMITING BELIEFS ON THE LANGUAGE OF LOVE
Week 5 click here LISTEN, JUST LISTEN... THAT's ALL WE NEED
~Month of JANUARY
Week 4 click here SEIZE THE OPPORTUNITY, NOW!
Week 3 click here GRANNY, THE CRANBERRIES, AND DEATH
Week 2 click here DON'T LOOK BACK IN ANGER
Week 1 click here OF ADVERSITIES & FAITH
To check the background of this challenge click here PAUSE FOR THOUGHT