In the world today,cheating is now trending. It has made love lose it's worth and sex it's value.
Cheating between men and women is seen as nothing but a tradition. The society has come to fully accept this atrocity. But that's not my pain and not what is so much eating me up.
What has made me question the society now is this;
Why does the society especially in Africa see men cheating as nothing but women cheating as an abomination.
Why can men go out there, leaving there wive at home to go and sleep with another woman that has exactly all their wives also have.
When he does this, he is forgiven by the society and applauded for by his peers.
But let a woman try this. She is spat at and called a whore. She is almost given a death sentence by the society.
A man does it, comes back home and is accepted back by his woman, after all the tears he made her shed.
But believe me when I say it's the opposite when it comes to the woman's turn.
He beats her up, and threatens to divorce .
It's not funny anymore.
If truly men and women have equal right, I think fidelity too should be made a two way thing. If men don't expect women to cheat, they themselves shouldn't.
Men should respect their bodies if the want that from their women. The are married and should stay married.
Please, men should stop treating women like a liability and start seeing them as assets.