Mother leads her 9-year-old girl in cosmetics. "I do not want to be the hair, do something."
The "hairy" child is dark, with more specific moss on his face, arms, and legs.
Despite the beautician's explanation of being too early for such procedures, the mother insists.
So the 9-year-old girl who holds a doll in her courageous hand starts to go on regular hair removal procedures.
The story, unfortunately, is true, it happened in Sofia a few years ago.
And the talks on the subject of the haircut of still-grown girls have not yet begun.
When we, the current women of 35+, were girls, depravity was a taboo theme.
Our mothers did not do much or did not think it necessary to bring us up, the girls growing up, the razor secrets and the sugar cola.
Then there were no other methods of hair removal.
In those years, children were children up to 16, then slowly matured, and each one of us found its way to cope with a hairless body somewhere at 18.
Today, when our own daughters are already 10 or older, the situation is quite different.
The female body is raised in a cult, beauty standards are terribly tall, and girls of the finest age are bombarded with appearance requirements that are not at all about their age.
Because of the internet and the sexual revolution that has taken place in the meantime, our daughters want to start taking care of their beauty sooner.
Or, we, their mothers, led by their own complexes from the past (walking with a mustache to the 10th grade and being ridiculed by all), we try to save our daughters this misfortune and send them to a beautician.
The hair on the female body, however, is not just an annoying flaw.
First of all, they are a sign that the girl gradually becomes a woman. They also have their physiological and psychological function.
This transformation - not only in the body but also in the consciousness - takes place for several years.
Only then, when the girl can decide only, we can give advice on the most appropriate way of hair removal or reduction of hair, such as a hair clipper.
Apart from all the above considerations, there is another one - during the puberty, the hormones are raging and the body does not behave as we expect.
Too early hair removal can actually stimulate rather than dilute the hairs and thus achieve the opposite effect - in our adulthood, our daughters have more headaches with the hairs.
Let's not talk about the main motive for deprivation - to like men. No girl is required to change her body just to be liked by a man, even less when she is 13-14 years old.
If we have to sort by age which area when it is appropriate to wipe out, we can start like this:
Mustaches (because they cause you the most mockery) - 12-13 years
Hunchbacks - 13-14 years old
Legs - 14/15 years
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Hair is a normal part of the female body. We must teach our daughters to accept and love their body as it is and to take care of it only in a way that they choose.
And we, as mothers, have no right to plant complexes, driven by our own standards of beauty.
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source - http://www.edna.bg
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