Motivate your kids Do not try to Discourage Them.
Lets talk about How to motivate and prepare you child for the future and how Your children needs to be treated And what are the important aspect which you need to keep in mind at the time he is just a baby.
As every parents have so much expectation from their kids they make lots of dreams that their kids will be judge their kids will be a police officer, army officer, engineer, doctors, Etc. But there is always certain hard work require to get your kids to that level to achieve that you are expecting them to be in future, That is in your hand almost 80%.
Let me clear it with an example if you want your kids to become a Doctor always treat him in a nice way, Make his mind for The doctor occupation motivate him to this profession , Feel him like how the life of a doctor is , Their memory are very sharp he will get everything which you want to expose to him.When you treat him in a positive way and you not shout at him he will feel like this profession is very best one and he will start thinking of it from the very beginning.
Parents are responsible sometimes.
Sometime we are responsible for their failure as well we treat them in a negative way, We talk to them rudely when they did something wrong, But we have to make them feel like they have the power to handle every situation and they can do anything they want to do , All we need to make them prepare for every hard situation.
When a kid a mistake and you beat him , It is same like you beat a person and he will take revenge from you but when you do this to a kid he is not able to take revenge but this will be fixed in his mind that you have trapped him and he will keep it in his mind the day when he has power and he become independent he will not listen to you and will do whatever he want to Do.
Why motivation is important?
Always try to motivate your child for the hard works prepare him make his mind that you are the one who has the ability to sort of the problems and you are the one who has the power to solve everything and you will become a person who will have everything what they want to be.
Never loss Hope.
Keep in mind failure in some work is not the end its is a chance to try again so be happy when you kid is fail in something try to make his mind to work hard and do not leave struggle it will help him to be a successful person in the life.