I don't know if you are familiarised with SWOT Analysis technique. I can talk about this terms maybe one day without intreruption. So even if SWOT Analysis it is applicable in business and management, this can be applied also to any individual. S.W.O.T. is an acronym that stands for Strengths, Weaknesses, Opportunities, and Threats. A SWOT analysis is an organized list of your business’s greatest strengths, weaknesses, opportunities, and threats.
Strengths and weaknesses are internal to the company (think: reputation, patents, location). You can change them over time but not without some work. Opportunities and threats are external (think: suppliers, competitors, prices)—they are out there in the market, happening whether you like it or not. You can’t change them.
So you can apply SWOT Analysis for yourself and from failure you can cross to successfuly man or woman without discriminations. Anyway divine intervention it is the last chance to succeed. Because the GOD said "am the true path and life."
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