This is basically life. What you repeat, you will get better at, what you don't, you'll get choppy at.
From this point of you, whenever you find yourself being weak or "bad" at something is probably because you do not implement habits to support your ambitions.
It is difficult to do that especially if you do not like routine as much and if the thing you want to implement is not easy in the first place. But seriously, do you want it or not?!
I find myself lacking motivation to do a lot of the stuff I want to do and then I inquire why. Maybe the answer is that motivation sucks. Like, DUDE, motivation is really a weak way to do something. Yeah it gets you going but then it rans out so fast. Motivation is not fuel, is a drug. So maybe is not motivation, is method.
The most important thing in all this, to me, is the desire to achieve or get better at something. That's when you take the decision to do this or that and that's where it gets back to every time. To all this, it helps to write down "the why" so you can always remember. It's funny but we are very bad at remembering while we think we are very good at remembering.
In a way, this post is a note for myself.
Here's a small list of things I want to get in a better habit for:
- Going to gym daily
- Listening
- Writing daily
- Making an effort
- Waking up a little earlier
- Meditation
- Saying what needs to be said
And because there is a needed GoT reference here it it:
When you play the game of habits, you win or you're a lazy-ass :))
So what are you trying to get into the habit to these days and how's your progress?