You must have read or heard a lot about what men should never say to women or what strong women don’t ever do for a man but this is going to be a totally new perspective for you. A lot of you might bash me after reading this or disagree at the least but this write is a totally unbiased one. If there’s one thing we can be so sure about from what we all observe around us, it’s definitely to never judge anyone or anything based on a relevant instance.
The major reason of such beautiful diversity in this world is the uniqueness every individual possesses from the other. Not being the same beautifies us, not make us ugly. There are as many shades of feelings as are there people. Just like you may see a lot of disgraceful men treating their women like garbage, there exist a lot of women who display totally unfair behavior to their men.
This blog is not in the favor of any gender, but only to highlight how naïve men should not let women around them exploit them. However, this is not the only aspect of this read. Alongside, you will also read other things that men should never take from women in order to support them in the time of crisis. Nothing in it is to be taken as offensive.
1- Excessive Throw of Tantrums
To be honest, women can be very weird creatures to live 24/7 with. You would not even know but they can become very upset in just a moment. Normally, a tantrum is the best way to shut your spouse down and it could be from any side. However, when a woman does this, there could be a million of reasons. It could be her favorite nail paint has been lost or as simple as she is hungry.
However, some women make it a force of habit to get their favors done. When you see your lady throwing a lot of tantrums and tempers on you, know that this could be something beyond impulsivity. Understandably, no one can pamper anyone all the time as it’s both impractical as well as insane. The best way is to talk to her, help her in kicking this habit and save your day!
2- Whining All the Time
It’s not done only to complaint about an unwanted behavior. Some women simply know nothing except whining all the time over small/big issues. They could be whining all day along about how their friend ditched her or, in most cases, complaint of the luxuries that you have not provided her.
3- Never Let Your Lady Hate Her
This could be the most destructive thing for your relationship. If you see your wife sad all the time over her negative aspects, stop her right away or else this seed will turn into a giant monster one day and eat all of your happiness.
The best way to make her feel positive and healthy about her is to keep talking about the good things she does or the achievements she has made in her life. This will make her feel good about her. If you think you cannot tackle this situation, know that this only is going to end in a bad way. Self-deprecation is not only bad for the self but for those who love us. It could end an individual in a psychiatrist’s office as well.
4- Overly Jealousy
We all would agree on it, men simply don’t leave their friends for women. In fact, the bond they have with their buddies can be stronger than you thought. They often lie to their wives just to hang out together. This is not something to be taken overly serious as. It’s as normal as women can’t live without good cosmetics.
If your lady is constantly getting jealous of your friends and has issues every time you go outside to chill out or even mention their name, know this is not okay anymore. The best case scenario in this situation is to sit down, take a chill pill and try to make them relax. Tell them their worth, speak your heart out. Your mere ‘you are the one I care the most about’ has the potential to melt them down. You don’t necessarily have to knack an opposition down to win your point. Love alone can handle this pretty well.
5- Does Your Lady Try to Control You?
Good men don’t try to control their women, but do good women? Take an unbiased look around, you will see a lot of women having the reins of their husbands’ lives in their hands. One of the basic factors of a healthy relationship is allowing your partner to live as freely as you would want to.
Regardless of who you are, a husband or a wife, don’t ever try to control or let them control you. Things can be settled down with peaceful negotiations and if they still don’t, controlling still should never be the option.
Hopefully these points have made their sense well and you have learnt something positive from it.