Everyone has their priorities ... there are disadvantages ... advantages ... of each choise..
It is not enough to say that something is the most important thing to us! In life, what counts are deeds, repeated actions and decisions taken on the basis of the idea that guides us (our northern star, signpost) ...
I often hear from people that the family is the most important for them, but nothing in their behavior indicates it.
Starting from long working hours, or taking a job home, ending with frequent nights out, trips or drowning in a TV or computer, just "for rest". At a time when we are not for children, the influence on them is exerted by strangers. So, if in a few years, We still want to be part of our childrens' life, We shoudn't waste time We have for them. Do not waste the time with them by watching tv.
The family is not only children, but also a partner.
Spouses, very often, focuses so much on the child or their work, that they forget about spending time with each other. Unfortunately, I know many cases, where a great relationship, after a few years of marriage, are ruined. Even a beautiful feeling, can not withstand the constant bombardment of everyday life, problems, worries or stress brought from working on shirts and a whole range of bacteria of misunderstandingness. However, there is a way to strengthen the relationship between partners, or even several ways connected with each other. It's all about getting the time reserved only for each other. I will describe my thoughts in more detail in subsequent posts.
In family life, our happiness and time for ourselves is just as important as time with children and a partner. The ground is to find a balance and a good calendar :)
Let the Force be with you!
Take a look at other thoughts of the day if you want to, obviously :)
And as a present, let me introduce you to legendary polish rap squad Paktofonika :) This is in polish but its a good piece of rap, and it's about pirorities in life :)
