Many people hurt themselves or others without even knowing it, and this could lead to some major issues that no one could be able to handle in the future if we do not take action and reconsider our acts before it is too late for it.
Now the question is: How can we deal with this kind of issues ? How can we make a bad situation turn out into an advantage ? And how can we move forward after that ?
I. THE REASON WHY :
First of all, it is a question of figuring out the reason behind our mistakes in life no matter how small or big they are, because every person without any exception is susceptible to commit faults or mistakes. Yet, what makes the difference is the way we face what we do. That is to say, you can commit errors but you do not have the right to deepen the wound by not giving any importance to what you have done, because it is not fair neither for you nor for the one you have hurt with your actions.
II. ADMITTING THAT WE WERE WRONG :
Secondly, after figuring out the source and the causes of the bad things we have done in our life, it is essential to admit that we were wrong. Indeed, many people would think that it is not a big deal and it is just something easy to do, but, what really happens is that our pride takes control over our actions and makes us ignore everything that we were wrong about.
III. FORGIVENESS :
The following step is forgiving ourselves, which means to forget the past and act for the sake of our future, because no matter how bad our mistakes are, after admitting the wrong things or attitudes of us, we can never move forward and improve our life style without trusting and forgiving ourselves. This way it becomes easier to control our actions in the future..
IV. NOT REPEATING THE SAME MISTAKES :
Lastly, we should be careful in the future not to commit the same errors. As a matter of fact, one must learn from the past and use the bad consequences of his previous actions as a weapon to avoid anything that could lead him to failure. That is to say the more you commit faults and mistakes in your life the more you gain in terms of experience, since you get yourself the chance to gather all the data from the past and use it in the present.
So, make mistakes and learn from them because that is what makes us human beings.
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