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Now I very well know that this is a topic that will raise a lot of eyebrows, but the truth is simple. You will have a better understanding as you journey with me through this post.
We are going to write this particular post together.
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- PINCH YOURSELF
If it hurts you then it means that it sent some sharp pain up your nervous system that was interpreted as a pinch on your skin. Now your brain easily tells you that it was done intentionally and that you did it yourself, so you do not really shout or scream or even as much as react vigorously.
- LET SOMEONE PINCH YOU
Now imagine you were busy reading this post on your device and a friend of yours crept up behind you to pinch you, all the nervous messages will run through your body again, only this time you will really react furiously and if possible turn around to either hit the person of release some angry words which you might immediately regret.
WHAT WAS THE DIFFERENCE?
Can you see that that anger you felt when someone else was responsible for your pain was as a result of knowledge? But the truth still remains that the pinch already happened, and killing the person will neither numb nor stop the pain.
Now staying emotionless will always give you a reason to allow you process information before jumping in like a blind frog. Whether it's business, relationships, or whatever it is. Learn to do them without some level of emotion.
Now many of you will argue with me and say you need your emotions to live, and I will say that you all are very correct.
All I am saying is that you learn to balance the two, letting your brains and your emotions have a middle ground where they both work in consensus. Too much of either will only bring your more issues that you can really handle.
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