Hi Steemit Friends,
I had the opportunity to read a book about self-confident and i stumbled upon something quite interesting. I want to share to you today about some wrong understanding people have about self-confidence.I find this helpful for myself and i hope this can be a little useful to my fellow steemians. :)
When You Have Self Confidence You Can Master Anything
Confidence Is crucial for success but so is competence!.
Confidence Without Competence = Delusion
Competence Without Confidence = Unfulfilled Potential
Confidence is extremely important but it's not the only key to achieve success. You need to develop your skills and gain experience that will cement your success.
Some People Are Born With Confident
There are some certain of truth to this like some children are born more extrovert while others are more introvert but it doesn't mean they have more confidence.
Extrovert people can be more socially confident and comfortable around people but it's also quite easy to have their confidence crushed by others.
An Introvert person might be less comfortable being around people but doesn't mean that with the right encouragement, opportunity and environment, the wont grow or show confidence.
There can be No Room For Self-Doubt
It is Healthy and Helpful to Have a small level of Self-Doubt.
It can Motivates you to grow and improves to be better. Having self-doubts makes us human.
when you someone who appears to be all putted together and super confident, remember beneath that they might not show you that in times they feel inadequate and insecure.
Alcohol Gives You Confidence
When you use alcohol as your only source of confidence, you over estimate your own abilities and underestimate the negative consequences of your actions. It can bring but also the pain.
Building self confident is so important but also having a right understanding ,looking at it and walk towards it the right way.....
Thank you For Your Upvotes and Comments
Much Love, Suzana