As a child, we are afraid of many things, always think after growing up we will become brave. But after growing up, only to find out that there are more things to afraid.
We start to fear regret, afraid to lose, afraid of being cheated, The more things we have, more afraid to lose them.
When we were young, we were curious about strong when putting the magnifying glass under the sun, and spent the afternoon under the sun just to experiment.
When we grew older, we still have a lot of curiosity, but we don’t dare to verify. Because we started to seek for stability, and afraid that little things will break our stable life.
Many people learn to procrastinate until they miss the timing and then comfort themselves, "Well, so be it!" But the things in life that have not been cleared up are still exist in your heart.
There was a friend of mine, she said it been one year after a breakup, and still unable to let him go. They would still chat like friends, she wanted to meet him, and asked him is it possible to get back together, but she was worried about no longer can talk with him in the future, and more afraid of being rejected.
At that time, I replied: "There are some multiple choice questions in life that we can never go around it, only can make a decision."
We can not stay indoor because of fear of the rain, certainly not because afraid of losing and not try to have it.
Later, she politely asked him: "There is a mess, are you not going to clean it up?" Luckily he understands, and said: "You will meet a better person." She understood what he meant, smiled at him and nodded.
But strangely, there was no sadness at the moment when getting the answer. The confusion, the ego, the pain, and the blame were all gone. Followed by a relieved, even the sky that day have become extraordinarily beautiful.
People tend to make another mistake to avoid a mistake. My cousin, who has worked in a foreign company before, her biggest dream is to be a fashion designer.
But she always said: "I've never painted before, I'm afraid I can't, I don't know if I have this talent. Moreover, I am now working so well, if I lost this, it is hard to go back. ”
I said to her: "Only if you want to, if you don't want to, you will find a lot of excuses." All people's dreams start from nothing, and everyone doesn't know whether they have the talent to begin with, but if you don't start, you will never have the talent.”
You refused to start because you were afraid of failure.
Life is always weak when you are strong when you weak it is strong, all fear comes from yourself.
When it pushed you into the corner, you jumped up and found that the opponent was nothing more than this.
Choose to escape, you will always be a loser, only to face it, you will be able to win.
The more you fear to take responsibility, the more you will run away. You will let yourself go, but time will not let you go.
The reason why we have to work hard is to see the world and to have the freedom to choose the opportunity of life.
For those things that have not happened yet, be brave to face it, no matter how hard you think it is, it still hasn't happened yet.
So, if you are afraid of challenges, then accept the challenge. After the challenge, you will find yourself become a better person.
After the challenge, you will find yourself become more and more outstanding.
Do what you're afraid to do, meet people you're afraid to meet, that's growth.
