I recently came across a heated discussion. The main tone that came out of it was:"I hate people who consider themselves better only because they have things that cannot be done by others. The best thing is that a lot of people have agreed with this. In my opinion, it sounds like this:' I hate people who consider themselves better simply because they have things that they cannot afford others to do, because they have earned them with their hard work, intelligence and many sacrifices'. So I pretend that I am not so good at all, because someone will feel offended. Free jokes.
The whole crib, which is being played in situations like the one above, is supposed to make sure that people do not try to be better than they are today. And if they break the chains and go to the Olympus with a sword in their hand, they should not be proud of it under any circumstances.
From a child we are taught that it is bad to stand out. We should agree and nod in everything. When Jasiek points the attention of an infallible lady in the primary school, she goes to the angle. Even if you know more and you are intelligent, don't try to rise up in the air under any circumstances. You are not to become an eagle, you are to become a ram that goes through herds. Your teacher, who barely binds the end to the end, on average depends on you to be better than her. No one wants you to be great and successful. Have you tried it? Walk to the angle.
It is the same as above. So, ask, why do you have such a support from the author of the introductory sentence? Just answer another question. How many people are successful and prosperous, and how many live from Friday to Friday and hard to harness just a beer at the bar? The same people then have to rest assured that someone has better, has more and has more and has more original.
Everyone is a blacksmith of their own fate!
Let us make a simple example. You have a neighbour who is lying. He barely graduated from high school and went to the factory somewhere to hasten for his fate. All that the world can do is twist the screws in strange devices. He returns home after work. she gives him a salty dinner, wondering why she was involved in such a cretin. After fatty pans, it's time for a daily shot of beer. Now you can decompose on the sofa, turn on TV and blame all politicians for having such a fate, not another fate.
You create websites that are starting to bring more and more profit. At the same time, you are developing your musical talent, which, after years of grinding, is also starting to make a big profit. Other people who will report to you will be able to help you or who offer you cooperation. The carved body results in years of carved body because you get invitations to castings for models. Your titanic work you did at the turn of years starts to monetize.
And then after all that you have gone through to be here, where you are and have what you have, you meet someone who says:"yeah, but why are you putting on such expensive shoes? After all, you know that I do not have so much money. And why do you put on a T-shirt to emphasize body structure? You know that I have a large stomach from drinking beer. Why are you doing this? Do you feel better?
Even if it were to pass through the thought that it was. What is wrong about it? Since I have a basis for this, I will not pretend to be worse. I won't start running slower too, so I won't be able to win the race by chance and cause other people annoyance.
Some people behave like emaciated children, even though tears have been drifting on them for several decades. I understand that you don't want someone to. Or someone deceives himself, just like a fat girl who thinks she feels good in her body and doesn't have to become someone else. But it is you who has chosen your way. You are the blacksmith of your own fate. I wanted to do more, that and I have more.
You should never apologise to someone for having a better one, provided you have worked hard for it. If you are intelligent, use it.
This is how artificial modesty arises. You won the marathon, a buddy comes and says:"You won, applause," and you said:"no, I was lucky". The correct answer is:"Thanks, it's nice!
Another thing when someone boasts of strength. No one likes such people. However, if I have expensive shoes, I made a silhouette all year round and finally I look pretty decent, I care about on average if someone feels offended. And if he feels like that, it will be a compliment to me.
There is nothing wrong with the fact that when you start being higher and higher in the social ladder, you more and more often think of someone:"you're idioto, how can you live like this? This is normal in a clash with opposite poles of society. However, there is nothing wrong in thinking in this way. This is entirely normal.
In life you have what you have earned and are able to support. This applies to all matters. Money, fame and women in particular. Therefore, next time someone will be complaining that you are better, make a fool in agreement with him or her.