Every human being has a portion of their weaknesses and strengths, so when you find deficiencies in other people there is no need to be too excited to hate them, or annoyed.
Especially if what you find deficiencies is your own partner, because the shortcomings are not something bad, and you should not annoy him.
Realize your heart first, because you also must have shortcomings, so it is not fair if you complain about it because you are not a perfect being.
Be aware that he was created indeed to perfect you, so that means when you complain because of the shortcomings that are in him, of course is a big mistake.
You have been selfish to him, demanding it perfect even though you yourself cannot be perfect as you wish.
It should be, When you know your partner's shortcomings, be thankful! Because that's where you will learn to perfect each other.
Stop complaining, and if you really want to complain about it, then complain to God through a string of prayers.
Because with prayer you will always be calm, by complaining to Allah, your heart will be easier to be more willing and patient, and then to Allah, you will be wise to realize that you also have shortcomings. So be patient, because the more you grumble, complain, and overdo your anger. Then it is likely that you will demand it perfectly, and when you act like that, the deficiencies will appear in your eyes.
That's why you have to be able to control your heart wisely, because it could be that the weaknesses that exist in yourself are greater than him, it's just that everything feels fine you feel, because he knows he is calm and unselfish.
And don't feel proud that you were perfect just because he didn't complain about you at all. Because his heart can be too sincere to accept you, because if the heart has accepted, then of course at least you will always receive wisely.