Hello everyone, its your boy Isaac here again. Today, I will like to talk about healthly relationship. Please, take a sit with a cup of chocolate as you read through.
Every ralationship cannot survive on its own. It needs the care and nurturing of two people giving to each other in a way that creates a mutually beneficial connection with one another.
A healthy relationship is one that is filled with happiness, joy and most importantly love in its core. A healthy relationship makes you fulfilled and satisfied by bringing out the best in you and your spouse.
Here are few things that make a relationship healthy and long lasting.
- COMMITMENT : It simply means a willingness to give your time, energy and resources to something you strongly believe in. Partners who are committed to their relationship view it as a permanent bond that creates a sense of security between them especially in marriages. Some spouse feel compelled to stay together during family or social pressure A relationship without commitment is more likely to crumble quickly because the spouses view problems as obstacles not as deal breaker.
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ii. TEAMWORK: In a relationship, this means when spouses work together , towards a common goal and supporting each other to combine individual strengths to enhance team performance. It simple means that you are the pilot and copilot with the same flight plan.
When challenges arises each spouse thinks in term of "we" rather than "me". Just know that without teamwork, you are just roommates with your partners because you are never on the same side . With teamwork present, couples work together to make the relationship successful.
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iii. RESPECT: This simply means spouses having due regard for each other's feelings, wishes, or rights. Respectful spouses care about their partners even during disagreement, they are mindful of the words they say.
By respecting each other, they appreciate each other's ideas and value and don't want to say or do anything that will ruin their relationship.
Lack of respect could be in other forms, it could a spouse lieing to the other, keeping secrets from the other, physically abusing the other. Respectful speech is a mortal that can hold your relationship together.
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iv. FORGIVENESS. To forgive means to let go of an offence and any feeling of resentment that it may have caused or stop feeling resentful or angry towards someone for an offence or mistake.
This is a key factor to a successful relationship, because forgiveness is a strength that shows you are capable of goodwill toward your partner.
If you love someone, you look past that person's imperfections and instead see the new being he or she is trying to become. If you hold resentment, you can harm yourself physically and emotionally also damaging your relationship. Forgiveness is the only extinguisher that puts out flames of a conflict in a relationship. So learn to forgive and forget because it won't only heal you, it will also heal your relationship of any injury.
With this few points, any relationship will be long lasting and healthy.
Enjoy your day...
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