Love/Hate.
The word Love and Hate are too different words entirely. They live in their own world and exist totally independent of each other. But what amazes me is how one can easily and quickly be transformed to the other.
Love, we were told, rather made to understand, is kind, caring, and all the good stuff. Hate on the other hand is the opposite of love, greed, anger, bitterness,jealousy, revenge, etc.
Agree, these two attribute exist and function in their own world, but what I will not agree with is that they can function together at the same time. That is an impossibility I am yet to believe can be possible.
Pls note: functioning together at the same time.
Lately, there is been frequent occurrences of spouses killing one another.
I do not mean the diabolical/witchcraft killing majorly know in Africa. I mean physical face to face intentional hurt/killing.
These before now, was a rare occurrence in this part of the world. Unfortunately, that cannot be said anymore, as it has been more of a frequent occurrence than having a full moon.
The Worrisome Question:
How does once loving someone so dearly, going through the trouble of marrying him/her, degenerate into Hate? Hate to the extent of getting physical and killing is involved?
If you ask me, I will tell you it was never love. It must have been something else mistaken for love.
There must be something that feels like love, that many have misunderstood to be love.
I am yet to find a name to what it is, and would appreciate if someone is kind enough to tell me what it is called.
Why not walk away?
Why hang in there?
Does it really worth giving up your live for?
I am yet to comprehend how what seemed to be love, transform into hate that quickly and easily.
Would appreciate opinions, share of personal experiences or other people's experience you have come across.
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