We all seem to be in search of the seemingly ethereal concept of a soulmate.
Do they even exist? And if they do, how the hell are you supposed to find yours out of the 7.5 billion people on Earth?
This is something I have mulled over time and time again over the years. My opinions on the concept may seem weird to you. You might not buy it. But, let’s give it a go.
Firstly, I don’t think every person on the planet needs a soulmate. My thoughts on this all stem from an idea of people being capable of needing and receiving at a certain level.
I’m a deep person. Often too deep. I feel as if I’m always teetering on that line of being intriguingly quirky and the type of bizarre that scares people away. I’m telling you this for a reason.
I have always felt that there are people, souls, spirits or whatever that I resonate with on this intangible level. When I meet these people, I get filled with an instant sense of completion.
I’ve explained this to friends and some have said, “Wow. I have never felt that and that’s for sure.” Some had felt it, though.
But, see, I didn’t know what to do with all of this at first.
Some of these experiences were with women. Some were with men. And with the men, they weren’t always men I felt an attraction towards.
We often think of soulmates as lovers. This was just a recognition of a kindred spirit. These instances blossomed into beautiful friendships.
Soulmates are absolutely everywhere. In many many forms.
If a soulmate is what you want. What you need. All you have to do is open your eyes, mind and soul.
Find the person you resonate with. The person who is just as open as you are. The person you not only like. The person you’re not only attracted to. But, the person you inexplicably connect with.
They DO exist. If you want deep connections, you have to dig deep within yourself.
And it’s important to note that I don’t believe everyone needs at this level. So, it takes self-reflection to understand what it is that you truly want.
Be patient. Be open. Be kind.
Let love come to you.
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