Love is a mystery, where the only one who knows is God, whether it is who, when the time comes, when when, and how long the quota together when it becomes one in the bond must be marriage.
When someone says, marrying someone we love is a gift, then really that is true.
And then what if in a marriage bond but there is no love? So realize, that loving someone we have married is an obligation.
Because it is he who has been given by God to you as a complement to your religion, he is your new responsibility, where in the future God will be held to your relationship with certainty.
Soulmate, death, and sustenance only God knows. We are only as recipients of safekeeping (trust), then when we are given the gift of love by God. So make sure we take care of it, we direct each other to pick up the love of Allah, because later Allah will ask for his accountability to us at the end of yaumil.
Love is a mystery, only God knows when we will be given, and when we are given, try to trust us in keeping it in our hearts.
Don't hurt, don't betray, don't lie, and don't cheat, because later it's not just with him, but with the owner.
So keep your love properly and correctly, no matter if you are married because you love each other or just love one of them, if you are together in a marriage bond then you really are obliged to love each other.
Is it hard to force your heart to fall in love? Learn, because by learning everything will be easy and by learning everything will be beautiful.
Look at how good he is, see how sincere he is, and see how he treats you well and correctly.
And remember, how unsuitable he is for you, don't fool yourself by complaining about it. Do not complain of love that is not in the heart, because what comes from God for you is the best.
So if you have been given, trust well and correctly, so that good for good always comes to you.
And keep in mind, that God knows what really makes us good, so be patient in training your heart to love sincerely and sincerely.
Let alone who is married to love each other, because those who do not love if they are one in a marriage bond, they must love and care for each other in the love of Allah.