Love without expression is fake. Is like giving a child a toy phone and demand that she calls her mum. You're only making a mockery of the child.
And today l took time to reflect on why the ones we tend to love never make us their priorities. This is because we are glued to where we are not accepted. This kind of relationship will only keep one in confusion and stagnation.
Coming down to the female folks, a lady can go extra mile to show a guy how much she values him. But the problem i had lately is that the said guys took it as an advantage to hurt the girl, they will still go ahead to cheat, the female folks are not left out.
WAYS TO EXPRESS LOVE.
To build a healthy relationship there are three major ways to express love.
- COMMUNICATION
- ATTENTION
- CARE
No matter how you profess love, if it doesn't reflect on the above mentioned factors; you're not serious.
Let's start with the first qualities.
COMMUNICATION
- COMMUNICATION.
This is the bedrock of every relationship. It doesn't require excuses or unnecessary explanations. If you can't communicate; you can't relate. If you're not the calling type; you're not the loving type. Ladies and gentle men, communication is love. Let me relate my own experience.
I can vividly remember my experience with a lady that is quite older than me, she jokingly calls me at interval, check on me, cook for me watch dishes and at a time i was forced to know her motive, i was never in any way committed, I am only seeing her as my neighbor because my heart is not there. I made it clear to her that, nothing is going to work between us.
My advice Don't be the reason someone shed midnight tears, be truthful to them and don't hurt someone's feeling.
The second point is
ATTENTION
- ATTENTION.
The greatest love you can express to a child is "ATTENTION" such is applicable to relationships. BECAUSE When you fail to give ATTENTION, you will Miss ALLOCATION. Because What so ever you give your attention, shows what you cherish.
The third point is
CARE
- CARE.
There is no love without CARE. CARE is the seed of love. (Lol this is where Nigerian girls take more advantage,) but the truth is, If you're not CARING; you're not romantic. Yes because A romantic person shows CARE, financially, emotionally, spiritually, physically without condition.
Love is a beautiful thing but don't profess what you can't express. Be mindful
SEE YOU TOMORROW
SEE YOU TOMORROW