You nailed it @sinohlubi... I use to be like actually still am but through been punch in the mouth I've learned that I come first.
With self love, you depend on yourself to take care of your own inner world.
Well stated, when the inner world is taken care of, the outer world takes care of itself.
It doesn't matter if most don't get it or call you whatever they want to call you... You come first.
RE: Selfish vs Self love?