The other day, while at the gymnasium with a good buddy of mine, I so happened to ask him his concept on love and what it meant to him. My lookout of belongings as they stood were that I really haven't figured it out yet what it is to love. Well he is different and has been in a closeness for 3yrs now and he seems happy enough.
My Quaker went on to explain to me that feeling you get when you see your significant other, how you shortage to just be with them and how incomplete your day is without them. For a moment, I really opinion he was creature silly with me but turns out he was dead serious. I did not lack to argue with that, he had won. I briefly evaluated my existence and concluded that the only entity I ever felt love for was money. That advantage there was a painful discovery to say the least.
Now before I am judged by this conclusion part, I am a very traditionally raised African guy. Maybe some of you see this things that happen in the village on some Nat Geo documentaries, I actually lived that existence so my detecting of belongings sometimes just type me seeming like a weirdo.
With that being said, let me trial and explain my perspective. I don't believe in love, I really don't. The fairy story that you meet a bird and she immediately drives you crazy and all you see is her in your current and future existence doesn't exist to me. If ever I get that feeling, it is lust and it dies faster than I tins incantation my name because the next one is always better. I simply discovery it impossible to understand that emotional context called love.
When I was raising up, men were never in the house as much, kids were the handicap of the mum and all men did was ensure that the family doesn't go hungry, naked or uneducated; see, simple. This whole issues of romance was never there. Honestly, it took me almost a decade and a half to see my dad profits my mum out. All I ever grew up knowing is as a doc I am required to provide, and my hens is supposed to be my helper; my second in command-which wasn't always true because to some extent the first born son somehow overshadowed the mother once he got circumcised.
I want to get married someday, but my finish on that incident is one that I have never found anyone to agree with. Since I do not believe in the sort of love the balance of mankind need to believe in, I have the kind I believe in. I believe you indispensability to discovery a person who's crazy you can live with for the scales of your life. Everybody has their own crazy, you just need to find yourself the benefit sort that you can handle. That is the first step towards judgment total gladness because you evidence walk abode knowing what you can expect and what you don't.
When I wake up in the morning, I don't cuddle, ill simply go back to relaxation and I can't have that, the sort of girlfriend I date, crave for that. Also, I have a back condition, I can't cuddle for more than 20min, which means any time we sleep, I get to tranquility on my side of the bed and you on the other. I don't like being in the house, makes me sense sick, I am a very outgoing fellow and I live for interconnecting and closing the next matter or dock a new client. But despite all this, I treatment enough to buy you all the nice presents Pinterest suggests and income you to all the standing I see and can afford in Google; I also cry maybe twice and text like ten times a day. I evidence still trace up, type you amazing breakfast-thank you mom the lessons-and any other fodder you may desire. I am not a good listener, but I pretend to be for your end and I do a pretty good location configuration people smile, I can be silly.