Internet offers the chance to easily approach a girl than the traditional way. A lot of shy guys now find it very easy to express their feelings to ladies than a face-to-face approach. However, many guys seem to be more confident, expressive and braver behind the screen, which gives a rise to a lot of rude and downright behaviour.
These are just a few disgusting habits guys exhibit when flirting with ladies online and they are highlighted below.
1.Uploading Idiotic Pictures
Apart from the fact that anyone can post whatever pictures they want, some pictures are just plain silly and annoying. It's very difficult for a lady to take you seriously when you don't present yourself in a presentable and respectable manner. The list of horrible pictures some guys put up when looking for girlfriends online are shirtless pictures, pictures taken on front of a bathroom with incredibly poor lighting. All these contribute to ruin their chances of getting the ladies they desire.
2.Spamming
Nothing pisses a lady off than seeing a guy spamming her inbox with unsolicited flirty messages. This only shows the height of immaturity and desperation. It will only send signals to the lady that you're nothing but a wussy guy. In short, stop being an ass-hole and give yourself some dignity. A lady might even be interested in you but the moment you keep spamming her inbox with irrelevant flirty messages, her interest in you quickly vanishes into the thin air.
3.Unsolicited Joystick Pictures
Many talk shows, reality TV shows and magazines have advised against this barbaric act, but does that change anything? No I guess. Many guys are fond of sending unclad pictures in a bid to get a lady's attention. You're chatting with a lady, wondering if things will progress to a real date, and then, bam!, there it is: a random, disembodied picture of your penis. Although, many of these guys have struggled to get a woman’s attention, and sending a dick pic is a sure way to get a reaction. Acording to a recent www.match.com study, sexual photos from guys are the biggest turnoff for women. A lady can easily guess that such guys are incredibly stupid or attention seekers, so they end up being blocked or reported.
4.Initiating sex on first chat
It's also a huge turn off for many ladies, if not all, to accept a friend request from a guy and the next thing you hear is "hello baby, I want to fuck you and make you scream". It incredibly sounds silly to start up a chat talking about how you want to rip off her pant. It shows you lack courtesy, comportment and all you need from her is sex. Even if you would do that, it shouldn't be so fast. Getting to know her better should be the most important thing especially when chatting for the first time.
5.Lies and Hypocrisy
There's always a shameful excess of dishonesty and hypocrisy from people purportedly looking to find their own true match online. According to https://m.huffpost.com/us/entry/1930053 fifty-five percent of Americans people surveyed they lied in their online dating profile. Men admitted to lying about height, weight and physique in their top five lies behind jobs and ahead of money and women lied about weight, age, physique, and height, with money rounding out the top five.
In summary of the above, both men and women are guilty of cooking up lies just to look appealing.
I will suggest the right ways to approach a lady when looking for online date
1.Be subtle in your approach
Where a lot of guys blow the approach by ridiculous and disgusting manner, try to be nice, friendly and genuine. The best way to be attractive to ladies when looking for online date is to keep your respective dignity intact. Don't be desperate or act wussy because you want to be noticed. This is a huge turn off for most ladies.
2.Use your real photo
It's said that appearance shows the manner. The way you appear is the first letter of recommendation. Always try to post the best pictures of yourself that will make you look like a high value man. Pictures of yourself swimming or traveling to new places are another great way of increasing your chances of finding a good girl online. When you upload shirtless pictures, she you like every other guy out there.
3.Avoid telling lies
The foundation of anything built on lies do usually last. Try as much as possible to be honest. Never use lies as a tool for advertising yourself. Remember the truth will surely be revealed when you eventually start dating and she might break up with you upon realizing the magnitude of lie you told to get her.
4.Avoid sending unclad pictures
This is a very disgusting way of approaching a lady online. It will only make you unreasonable, foolish and silly.
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