Life is in phases and every phase of one's life has it's own importance, uniqueness and purpose. Don't try to jump a phase of your life because you are after the next phase of life and become too comfortable with your current phase of life when you ought to be in the next phase of your life.
Being single or better put it "yet to be married" is a phase of one's life which is usually associated with the youths and even teenagers as well. Singlehood is a good period because it gives you so much opportunity to plan for your tomorrow. Don't be in a hurry to get married because you might end up with a wrong person. Be that single with a difference.
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Don't rush out of singlehood with the wrong reasons in mind for getting married as many are doing today and that is the reason we see so many break up in marriages today. Don't marry because;
- You are tired of being single
- Your parents want grandchildren
- Your mates are married
- You want a sex mate
- You want a woman in your arms or a man in your arms.
But get married married on the basis of you understanding what marriage is all about and you have seen the need for a life partner who can help you achieve your dreams in life. It is called life partner, implying you need to have a life before looking for someone who will partner with that your life. You are not meant to be a liability partner but a partner that can support life and one's existence.
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Don't be in a hurry to leave singlehood because it is never a crime to be a single. That your mates are married long before you does not mean you are an unfortunate person in life.
Be Single And Happy With Your Life
Enjoy the freedom and every good opportunity that comes with being single. Sit down and discover the potentials in you.
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Yes I understand perfectly well that you are long overdue for marriage but certain factors has hindered you from getting married. That is not enough reason to be moving around with a moody face and like a defeated warrior. Move on with your life, improve on your skills, engage your life in meaningful ventures rather than expressing a pitiful state. My friend be single and happier than even those who are married. Marriage is not the highest achievement in this life.